Hi, I currently have 3 bedroom semi detached house with space on the left side (when facing the house) to extend into. I want to build a double storey side extension. Both me and my neighbours currently have a shared manhole on our boundary. I want to build an double storey extension on top of the area where the manhole is and so asked neighbour for permission to move the existing manhole and build a separate manholes for both the neighbour and myself (at no cost to the neighbour at all, I would pay full costs). In the long term having separate manholes would be beneficial for both of us. However neighbour is not giving me consent to do this.
Note planning and building regulations have both been passed. Just the neighbour is not giving consent to move the manhole -citing the brief disturbance that might be caused as the reason for not going for the better longer term solution.
The neighbour is not giving me consent to move the existing manhole and therefore I have no option but to leave around 50cm gap on the side of the extension so there is still access to the manhole. I really do not want to do this, I don't understand why something has was put in places decades ago I now have to suffer for.
This is such a waste of space along the side that I cannot build onto.
Can you please advise what other options I have here? I can't be the first person that's been in this situation. Given we are trying to do what's best long term, the neighbour is being very difficult.
Look forward to hearing back from you asap.
Thanks