Need your insight to decide between Reading or Paddington?

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I do telecommuting but my partner has offices in Reading and Paddington and frequently travel to keep Heathrow commute as another consideration in our house hunt. Which areas are best for his commute? We are looking for safe, nice towns with easy access to tube, lively and walkable downtowns. Our collective maximum rental budget is 4,000 pounds per month. Its just two of us, both in our late forties so schools aren't a consideration and space is not the deciding factor, a posh flat in a lively area would work as well as a small country house in a lovely village.

Does your employer(s) have a HR or relocation department that can help out? I don't know all the rules, but to rent a property without a UK credit history could be tricky, plus you need to prove your immigration status and right to live here, these are all things you need to get sorted before you start looking for properties.
Depending on how long you'll be here, you might want to try out a few locations on short-term lets, before making a decision on something more permanent.
Your £4k budget will easily cover something decent, whether rural or central. If the former, don't forget you may have a journey to make to get to the nearest station, how do you feel about driving down (by US standards) very narrow country lanes, on the 'wrong' side of the road?

Not sure of your timetables, but there is a new train service opening up (cross rail) that will link up paddington both to the west and east of London, this could open up a lot more potential places to look at with a relatively short commute time.

What do you like doing in your spare time? If you love going to the theatre and fancy restaurants, stay within the tube network. You can download a map from tfl.

If you'd rather spend time in greener places, then Windsor, Henley on Thames, Marlow... They are options.

How long are you happy to travel to work? I live 5 minutes walk to Reading station and I can get door to door to Baker Street in 45 minutes, if I time it well.

Get a map and ask us about areas. I'm sure with your budget you can find a nice one

If I had 4K a month for rent and needed to get to Paddington/Reading I would live in south kennsington or near High Street Kensington.

Henley and Marlowe are both lovely. But you really need to get here and get a feel for these places.

I'd live in Marylebone. You could get a decent sized 2 bed off the High Street for that. Not bustling and walking distance to Regents Park. You can walk to Paddington.

Reading isn’t particularly picturesque or interesting, but has good connections to London. Oxford is lovely in parts but train etc connections not great.
I’d stick with centralish London. Although, I’d disagree with a previous poster about South/High St Kensingto being ideal. I’ve lived in both of those, and , while central, I found them an odd mixture of staid and touristy. Lots of embassies but not much going on.
I much preferred living in Belsize Park/Primrose Hill. In fact, I’d still be there now if I could. They’re civilised and pretty. And quiet. Hampstead or West Hampstead or Islington could be good, too.

We are waiting to hear from HR about relocation time line and paperwork. As I telecommute and he can work out of Paddington office, we'll focus on that location.

Which ones are best to get there by tube?

I prefer natural beauty but would need grocery, theaters, restaurants and medical facilities near by. Neither or us cares much for shopping or drinking any more so proximity to pubs or malls doesn't matter to us.

By the way, i would like to thank every poster for volunteering their time to help out a newbie. Its very kind of you, i would appreciate any tips or advice you may have for any aspect of life in your lovely country. If all goes well, we are hoping to call it home for 2-4 years.

I think you might like something like this place which is about a 15 minute walk to Hammersmith tube station, which is then 8 stops on the tube to Paddington.

I lived in Paddington for a decade until late 2013 and i fi had a budget like yours I would move there tomorrow. You have the restaurants and shops on Westbourne Grove, Portobello Market and Notting Hill. Hyde Park and the lovely Italian Gardens opposite Lancaster Gate, Kensington Palace and the canals of Little Venice. These things, as well as Marble Arch, Oxford Street and Kensington High Street are a short walk away. Transport links are reliable and frequent and with the opening of Crossrail it will only improve.

Paddington, towards Bayswater and Lancaster Gate in particularly Cleveland Square are like small villages in part. They retain some community feel that is fast disappearing.

I vote for Paddington.

Reading really isn't as bad as people say imo 😂 but places like Henley, Twyford, Marlow are much "posher" and quieter, less commuter heavy but good connections, and very pretty. Not a lot to do but then I'm 20 and probs have very different expectations from you! 😂 as far as I know they all have decent access to medical facilities, groceries etc. I would vote for one of those above Paddington, as I find London very overwhelming and needlessly expensive, not just on rent but on the prices of day to day things.

I don't think you are going to find the sophistication of central London outside of central London (and I know Windsor and various other places towards Reading very well). If you want a rich cultural/social life then there are so many beautiful places in London itself like Notting Hill, parts of Bayswater etc. which are short walks from Paddington and and the Westway which quickly gets you out to the countryside (and Reading) west of London etc. Good luck!

If you want lively and walkable downtown then you want London and not Reading. With your budget you could have somewhere lovely in Ealing but to me, Ealing is a great compromise for someone looking for good schools/parks etc but on your budget and just two of you, you don't need to compromise! I'd agree with the idea of a lovely flat in Little Venice or Maida Vale. Right in the heart, but near lovely parks.
Little Venice does get busy on weekends - if you are looking for a bit more calm or a 4 storey house with a garden then agree that Ealing might be your best bet, don't be put off by the Broadway which is grim, just a few mins away are much nicer parts.

Nice flat in little Venice Maida vale

Ealing is suburbia. I'm sorry to all the people who love it but it's not London and I wouldn't ever live there if I had the OP's budget and no kids. If the OP is after theatres and restaurants, she'd be much better off living in Zone 1.

Have a look at St John's Wood, Fitzrovia, Holland Park and Primrose Hill. Or if you like modernist architecture, the Barbican is brilliant. There are theatres, art galleries, restaurants and private gardens (and a grocery store). Plus there's a really great community there (and lots of expats). Farringdon is easy to Paddington.

If you are here for 2-4 years do both :

So first year live in the city - if you need "green" look at anywhere over looking Hyde Park or Regents Park - both are very near Paddington so walk, cycle, bus rather than tube.

Do all the the amazing cultural stuff London has to offer, during the week, but have the lovely massive parks for greenery on your doorstep.

Use this year to explore further afield on weekends and decide where you fancy spending the second year.

Personally I don't do suburbs - either be in (for the cultural life) or out in the sticks proper. This doesn't need to a huge commute if your OH gets overland fast train to either Marylebone (Chiltern Line) or Paddington. There are so many stunning rural villages set on National Trust land or in official designated Areas of Outstanding Natural Beauty (along the Thames, in Chiltern Hills etc) which are a short drive into Marlow or Henley for great restaurants etc.

If you OH finds he is working more out of Reading you could even go as far as Bath and the Cotswolds.

Notting Hill? Walkable to Paddington, lots of bars restaurants etc. £4k will get you a lovely apartment there.

Henley is lovely. Bayswater area is nice.

I second Marylebone. Its lovely. I live in Windsor which I love, but the commute is horrible. (in both directions). For £4k you'll be able to get something wonderful even in London! I think from your description, you'd be far better off living in Central London and keeping some budget for weekends away to the cotswolds, Marlow etc. (Though if you aren't interested in drinking / pubs, I'm a bit confused as to what you mean by wanting a place to be lively, tbh .)

I second Henley or Goring on Thames

Choose Paddington!!

I lived in Paddington for 3 years (just moved in earlier this year) and loved it-look at mews houses in and around Paddington, west to Ladbroke Grove and south to Connaught village and Hyde park. The park is very close, and you also have the canals which are lovely. There is a real community, especially in the mews houses because everyone is very international and transient and so, in my experience, work hard while they’re here to create a neighbourhood.

It’s vibrant, very mixed and quite eccentric. I’ve moved not far from Hampstead and I really miss Paddington.

Have just RTFT and completely agree with @Rosevi that the area around Paddington does v much feel like villages, in a wonderful way!

I really recommend a book called Finding Myself in Britain, by American writer Amy Boucher Pye. She’s been in the UK for over 15 years and has some interesting insights about the differences in culture between here and the US.

Amersham? And all the smaller places around you here, little and great Missenden, HydeHeath.
I can never believe that such beautiful wooded countrysid is 40 minutes on the metropolitan line to central London .

I'm taking notes and after some online research, i i'll forward names of top contestants to relocation agent. I hope he aligns some good properties so we won't have to stay in temporary place for long. Thanks again. Please adding to the thread if any of you think of any helpful idea.