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Moving and huge problems - we could be homeless for a couple of weeks!!

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Twinkie1 · 24/04/2007 17:07

Right long story but the couple who own the house that we had agreed to buy are getting divorced and the woman is refusing to move out into rented accomodation until she has a financial settlement in place - her legal team told her that this is the only way to ensure she gets as much as she can out of her extrordinarily wealthy husband - she has kids from ages 9 up and says that she would not ever put them in rented accomodation - although we will now have to go into rented (thats another story) because they didn;t tell us until we were ready to exchange that they were not going to be able to exchange yet!!!

Last night we saw another house - 30 minutes away from where we live att he moment - is in a nice village and house is much better than previous house we were going to buy but we are now in a predicament of having to find somewhere to live for maybe 2 - 4 weeks - I have said that we should ask DHs parents but he doesn't want to and that it would just be a nightmare - I can't see why but there you go - our only other option is to rent but the only rentals I can find are for a minimum of 6 months and the house we are now buying could be empty in 4 and the sale could be completed in 6 to 8. The people who are buying our house will not hang around for too much longer even so we could stall them for 4 weeks our solicitor thinks but what do we do till then:

Rent somewhere big enough for us and our stuff (2 adults & 2 kids and 3 bed house worth of belongings as well as garden toys and furniture) knowing that we could be out in 2 months but have to pay for 6??

Maybe ask the guy who is selling us his house if we could rent it as soon as the tenants have moved out but have to have it carpeted and decorated around us - I know he would probably be told not to do this but thought we could give it a try - we would be cash buyers and could have an exchange date by then??

Or stall this and then go to In Laws for 2 - 4 weeks with DH being thoroughly miserable but having to put everything into storage (could ask man who is selling us his house if we could just move belongings in of course??) - storge is sooo expensive though and we would be stuck not being able to get anything out because that just costs more.

I really really do not know what we are going to do - have a new job as well as 2 DCs to cope with changing nursery and schools also as too far from school DD goes to now to get her there each day???

Sorry this is long but I thought maybe someone would have an empty house int he Chilsehurst/Bromley area that they could let us have for a few weeks and would love to rent it to us - or some clever sod could come up with another solution to our problem??

Many thanks for getting this far and all suggestions will be read and considered and probably dismissed by DH anyway?????

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Mumpbump · 24/04/2007 17:13

When would you be looking for accommodation? I have a two bedroom flat in Sevenoaks which is coming free in July if the timing works...

Twinkie1 · 24/04/2007 17:17

Oh thanks Mumpbump but we will have to move out of here in the next month and should really be in new place by July.

Very nice of you though!!

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Katymac · 24/04/2007 17:21

Could you get a holiday let?

& put stuff in storage?

Mumpbump · 24/04/2007 17:22

What about putting your stuff into storage and staying in a B&B for a bit? Expensive, but not horrendously so. Otherwise, if I were you, I'd bite the bullet and ask the In Laws...

SoupDragon · 24/04/2007 17:25

"Maybe ask the guy who is selling us his house if we could rent it as soon as the tenants have moved out" I've got friends who did just this. They rented the house they were buying until it was theirs. Why would you need to have it carpeted/redecorated around you? Is he going to do this in order to sell it to you??

NurseyJo · 24/04/2007 17:30

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Soapbox · 24/04/2007 17:33

Holiday cottage and stuff in storage worked for us in the past

SoupDragon · 24/04/2007 17:44

Different house, NurseyJo, they pulled out of the divorce one.

NannyL · 24/04/2007 19:07

This happened to my old bosses

we live in quite a picturesque area with several holiday homes avaliable to rent weekly...

they moved in early spring and they rented a holiday house for 3 weeks. Most stuff (all except clotehs basically) went into storage!

the advanatge of the holiday house was that it wa fully equipped with EVERYTHING... even baby friendly with stair gate, monitor, high chair and loads of toys / puzzels and even kids and adults DVDs and videos and books etc! we had a nice garden, a washer dryer, functional kitchen etc etc and all just 2 mins down the road!

Twinkie1 · 24/04/2007 19:56

What a fantastic idea - a holiday let near to the house so we can effectively get to grips with the situation down there and have a taste of it before actaully moving!!!

I knew you guys would come up with smething!!

And DH's dad rang to find out what was going on and said oh well just move in here then!!! But a holiday let would be better - means DD could move schools quicker and I could take a while off work and get DS settled in nursery!!

You guys are the best - just got to find a friend in that area now!!!

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NurseyJo · 24/04/2007 19:57

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Katymac · 24/04/2007 20:01

I always knew I was a genius

For the next months a caravan would even be a possibility

lucykate · 24/04/2007 20:06

we were homeless for 5 weeks during our first move and stayed with my mum. it wasn't as bad as we thought it was going to be and went by really quickly in the end. the main problem we had with it was i had a daily 3hr commute to work for those 5 weeks and i was 6 weeks pg with dd, bad pregnancy and bad sickness too. situation wasn't ideal but it was only for a few weeks. staying with the in laws would be cheaper than a holiday let

Twinkie1 · 24/04/2007 21:41

Well DHs father offered and we have sort of said yes - they will be away for 2 weeks whilst we will be there anyway!!!

They don't want us spending money if we don't have to because they are lending us some anyway!!

One main rule in our relationship though is that we don;t do caravans!!!

So thanks girls - knew you were geniuses - hopefully no more problems to encounter though!!

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MARGOsBeenPlayingWithMyNooNoo · 26/04/2007 13:14

Twinkie

I didn't think that storage was that expensive - a 2 bed house cost approx. 160 for 4 weeks.

Where are you moving to? I see you're local to me!

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