Right I've moved into a new property. Wasnt ideal due to the garden but was escaping a bad relationship and needed to move fast and it was the best of a bad bunch.
Anyway. So the garden isnt secure. One side belongs to my landlord, which is the best of the 2 sides but has panels missing and is falling apart. I am hoping my landlord is going to fix this. Or at least go halves with me or something.
Other side belongs to Next door. Crappy wall that was originally waist height ish but is falling down and in places non existent and in others very low. The bits that are still high are all loose brick and off if you so much as touch them.
I have 4 kids. 3 have Autism and one with severe learning difficulties. I also have 2 dogs which are not the best at listening and have a few issues of their own - both rescues that have been abused and have become reactive.
Anyway so this is a bit of a nightmare for me. The dogs cant be let out without me taking them out on leads. Which is hard when they have been used to free use of a large garden. Kids cant really use the garden in the same way they did before. Need highly supervised as they can just wander into next door.
I dont know what to do here. I can't afford to take down next doors wall and put a brand new fence up, which in reality needs to be a 6 ft fence to solve all issues with dogs etc.
But equally I cant really expect next door to fund a new fence if they are happy with whats there. My landlord says its pretty much been like that for the 10 years they have owned the house. So cant see it being a temporary issue.
My dogs got into the neighbours gardens tonight - had tried a tie out stake thing while I was trying to get my little ones off to bed and somehow they have got off. Anyway now the neighbour is very pissed off with me - apparently they were barking at her back door 
[embarrassed] i know im in the wrong with this and the second I realise I ran out and got them. But I am trying my best in a difficult situation.
I dont know what to do. [Sad]