You never know what life is going to throw at you. I was married at 22, on the property ladder at 23, NHS pension, planning to start a family and doing very nicely thank you.
By 30 i was divorced, been told I couldn't have kids, penniless (spent everything we had on private infertility treatment and then sneaky ex-Dh screwed me royally by being massively in debt which i knew nothing about but had to pay half of). Set off and travelled the world, in doing so met DH #2. After a few years we managed to get on the property ladder in the US, were doing very nicely, large house, two new cars, two full-time incomes, pensions yada yada. Also had 2 kids despite being told it was impossible, but that's a story for another day...
Another 10 years goes by, now DH is out of work and has MH issues so can't get back into the workforce, I'm working 60-70 hours a week to keep the roof over our heads and can't get a decent job in my speciality because the US doesn't recognise my degrees and masters degrees so I'm stuck in basic-level low-wage jobs. For this and several other reasons, we sell up, just about breaking even, and head for the UK.
We've been renting for just over 3 years, scrimping and saving another deposit, and have just now managed to get a toe-hold back on the property ladder here (we complete next month). I'm still the breadwinner and always will be due to DH health issues, so our new house is half the size of the last one we owned, but I can afford to pay for it out of my earnings and to over-pay so the mortgage will be paid off in around 15 years.
When i bought my first home at 23, there is no way i ever imagined I would be 'starting over' again in my mid-40s. I assumed I would be mortgage-free and living the high life by now. I see one of my oldest and closest friends, same age as me, house was paid off yonks ago, both kids left home, every FB post is another exotic holiday or a new car, planning retirement at age 55. And I wonder what happened....
I once read that 'life is what happens while you're busy making other plans.....'