En suite without shower? Or no en suite at all

[GreatBigPolarBear]

We're looking into extending primarily to give us a new bigger bedroom ideally with an en suite.
However looking at the initial plans, the proposed bedroom is not much bigger than our old one once the en suite is included.

Also, we're just about to put in a new expensive family bathroom with a top of the range shower.

I wondered if it's worth having a shower in the en suite given that there will be a good one in the family bathroom and you can't use them both at once anyway.

DH says this is ridiculous and there's no point having an en suite at all without a shower.
(We also have a shower downstairs)

Any ideas?

So long as there is another loo somewhere in the house I'd go for a nice walk in closet.
We managed a long thin en suite in our not that large bedroom, toilet one end, shower the other and sink in the middle opposite the door. The door is a nice pocket door that rolls into the wall and makes both the en suite and the bedroom seems bigger.