Hello,
Can anyone please advise me on this very awkward situation? In a nutshell, I've been married to a serial adulterer for 14 years, 2 kids and as a result of the extreme stress I've had some horrendous health problems.
He's been wanting to leave since the start and is now demanding a divorce 3 weeks before I have an operation due. Two years ago I ended up going through a serious mental breakdown because I was sole carer for the children during the debilitating health issues that followed a brain haemorrhage, whilst he was busy being the over-excited 16 year old in a new relationship.
He's prepared to sign the house over to me in order to be shot of me. Trouble is, the building society won't put the mortgage into my name. I don't earn very much because I'm unable to work full time but he's prepared to continue paying expenses as he currently does, I expect out of guilt.
A solicitor has told me that no county court judge will agree to the case - ie where he ends up with nothing.
Yet it's his fervent wish to be rid of me, his sense of urgency that's pushing him to happily sign the house over to me and continue paying for the mortgage /household expenses (he has an extra income that he doesn't declare - to me or to anyone, he's a successful artist, at times gets lump sums.)
He currently apparently lives with his mummy who he worships.
Any advice on how I can get the building society to agree? And the judge to agree given that we're both in agreement about the house?
Thank you in advance