the loop will I'm pretty sure be to keep hot water in the pipes to your taps which are a long way from the cylinder. These pipes will act as long thin radiators so the boiler will need to run at intervals to replace the lost heat.
For a start, make sure the pipes are very well insulated. Pipe lagging in stiff plastic foam is made in two grades, "regulations" or "bylaw" which is as fat as your arm, and "economy" which isn't as good.
www.wickes.co.uk/search?text=lagging
Insulate all the pipes between the boiler and the cylinder as well.
You might consider adding a timer or switch to turn off the circulating pump expect during those times of day when you will be using the distant hot taps.
If the loop pipes are within the fabric of the house then their cost doesn't matter so much at times when the heating is on, because the heat they emit will help keep the house warm. But it is generally inefficient to keep running boilers for short periods.
Your cylinder is quite big, set the HW timer to run only twice a day, starting before bath/shower time. Depending on age and efficiency, it might take an hour or two to get fully hot when starting from cold.
If the loop is actually using all the heat from the cylinder in a day, that's pretty bad. I presume your cylinder is modern and blue.