We live in a north London 3 bedroom Victorian terraced house, with a fairly long / narrow kitchen, and one of those pointless side returns. Bought in 2010.
The kitchen is now in a state of complete disrepair - walls cracked / peeling, ceiling lights not working, oven broken, doors hanging off hinges, etc. It needs to be replaced. In an ideal world, we'd be able to extend into the side return (and maybe out into the garden a couple of metres), but of course that's considerably more expensive.
We can just about manage with the layout we we have, although it's not ideal. Hopefully we'd be able to reconfigure slightly in order to make better use of the space; for instance there's not quite enough space for more than 4 people to sit down for a meal comfortably, without the hassle of everyone having to stand up / move the table etc.
My question is - do we live within our means and just get the kitchen replaced? Or borrow money to get the extension done? As well as the extra money (we don't like borrowing and other than our mortgage don't do loans / credit cards etc), there's also the time and upheaval, especially with two young DCs (5 and 3) in the house.
And if we do borrow, do we get a loan, or look into re-mortgaging? I don't really know how these things work so would love for someone clever who's gone through this before to help me work this out.
Although there are some other irritations about the house itself (busy road, difficult parking), bar a lottery win we'll be here for at the very least the next 8-9 years, so a good long-term solution that'll make us comfortable as the DCs grow up is the main priority.
Does anyone have advice for me?