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Neighbour have changed frosted glass door to a clear glass window overlooking our garden

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Lighteningirll · 15/04/2016 17:10

We live in a lovely detached property which we are doing up but have lost privacy to 1/3 of our garden/garage since our new neighbours moved next door. They have open planned the back half of their house and changed a frosted little used back door into a clear glass main window in front of the sink in the kitchen/diner. The window is two foot away from our side access to garage and gives a clear view into our garage and garden including the sunny evening spot we sit and eat in as a family. Every time I go outside I can see right into their home and they can see me, no more putting the rubbish/recycling out in my knickers!
I did speak to the builder raising concerning and he said they would be putting a fence up. When they moved in dh put a temporary block up, the guy came round and complained about it being unsightly as it the only window in their kitchen. That's because they blocked up the main kitchen window! He initially said they would put a fence up but has now backtracked. The wife has complained about us 'spoiling her view' and says we should have discussed it with her before doing anything. We have now received a note asking us to remove the panel blocking said view (of my garden!) as it is attached to their fence panel. Dh and I went round for a chat and said we were unhappy with the lack of privacy that they were quite possibly in breach of planning and would they please put a fence up. The answer was an empathic no. Apparently they have designed the kitchen intending to look out at our garden and we are being unreasonable and unfair, they have also raised their kitchen floor so even a six foot fence wouldn't block the view and the most they will consider is a low fence and trellis. I am a bit stuck what to do I really don't want to fall out with them but it's all starting to feel a bit inevitable. Dh has refused to take the panel down and in fact intends to put it against the full length of the fence they can now see over and next doors dh is clearly furious and won't even speak to us.

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honeysucklejasmine · 18/04/2016 16:48

I can't believe the cheek of them! What were they thinking?!

Really pleased to read your update. Will be even happier when you update to say they've replaced the glass with frosted stuff.

SisterMoonshine · 18/04/2016 17:26

oh good :)

Want2bSupermum · 18/04/2016 17:56

Very good first step. I'd follow up with the guy later this week if you have not heard back.

LeaLeander · 18/04/2016 22:05

I wish we had those rules about frosted glass. The small house next door to mine was razed and a giant McMansion built in its stead; the windows from their open-plan sitting/dining/kitchen area loom over my garden and now I feel self-conscious. Even though it's doubtful they are riveted to the window by any exciting views of me taking out the garbage or digging in perennials, it's still a major loss of privacy. My house is low so I do not get a view of them and it's hard to explain but it sort of shifts the power dynamic among neighbors.

I've had a large solid awning built over my back porch and planted some shrubs that hopefully will help in a few years. But it's frustrating; privacy is something I really treasure and having spent $10,000 on a fence - only to have that fence defeated by the new, higher-up windows - is galling.

Lighteningirll · 19/04/2016 07:43

I am shocked by that LeaLander the Building Control man who came round yesterday said he was responsible for the original loft conversion/ hip lift to our next door property and frosted glass was a condition on all side Windows. I hope your plants grow quickly.

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WonderingAspie · 19/04/2016 11:25

Would love to see their faces when they get the letter. Stupid idiots thinking they can do what they like! The nerve to say they planned it solely for the view of your garden! In what world did they think that was acceptable!

I really want to see this garden Wink.

We have a side extension, all the side windows have frosted glass, including the kitchen one that overlooks our neighbours garden (which is lovely), I don't want to see people in their garden anymore than they would want me having a look at theirs.

They obviously thought you weren't going to do anything about it. I would have done exactly the same, neighbour relations be dammed.

namechangedtoday15 · 19/04/2016 12:12

I think it depends where you live. We are in a road of 1930s semi detached houses and everyone's kitchen window is on the side of the house - there's about 3m from the side of the house to the boundary, a fence, 3m to the neighbour's house. Our kitchen windows directly face one another. Most people have extended, and there has never been any requirement to have frosted glass. We're currently extending our house, we have added another side window - looking into neighbours garden if we were so inclined, and it doesn't have to be frosted glass. The only caveat is that the additional window we're having in the new bathroom (upstairs) which would overlook their garden again has to be opaque glass.

Ughnotagain · 19/04/2016 12:19

Bloody cheek of doing it with the intention of being able to see into your garden! Twats. Hope you get it sorted asap!

Clutterbugsmum · 19/04/2016 14:00

I hope you told them that YOUR GARDEN was not their view, that it was your garden and your private space.

You can put a 6 foot fence on your side of the boundary and there is nothing to they can do about as long as it is on your property. If don't want too, then I would be looking at finding a semi permanent fixture.

lalalonglegs · 19/04/2016 14:48

I'd run a washing line with a load of greying, stained sheets on it. The brass neck of them.

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