if you get 30lpm at the outdoor tap, that sounds really good, better than I would expect from 15mm. I wonder if the house is close to the main, or is modern enough to have a plastic pipe underground. Measure it again to make sure. 30lpm is about six and a half gallons (three buckets) per minute.
There may be a slight advantage in changing some of the piping, and any stopcocks or service valves, to full-bore ones, especially between the stopcock and the cylinder, and the cylinder and the bathtaps, to get the best out of your flow. I would prefer 22mm to the cylinder, but the benefit might be small if the main supply pipe is only 22mm. Elbows in the pipes reduce flow more than bends.
Unless you have long showers under a drencher head, 180litres would do four, especially if you time the boiler to start heating the cylinder half an hour beforehand, and to continue running until at least twenty minutes after the last shower has finished, that will leave it pretty well full for the rest of your day's use.
Bear in mind that running all your hot taps at full power, if they deliver the full 30 litres, they would use up all the hot water in 6 minutes. A bath uses about 100 litres. Unless you are tight on space in your airing cupboard, I would go for a 250 litre cylinder.
If you know someone with a powerful shower, try filling a bucket to see how many lpm that is. I would consider 10lpm to be a good shower. Some drenchers or American showers deliver more. Most people might set the mixer to, say, 75% hot and 25% cold.
The installation of a new boiler on old radiators should include a powerflush, which is about half a days work, and done before the new boiler is fitted. The Magnaclean will capture residual circulating particles before they can settle into new sediment. Ask the engineer to show you how to open the lid and clean out the trapped sludge, it is no harder than emptying a hoover bag, and you should do it monthly until the amount removed dwindles away.
As for reliability, a conventional or heat-only boiler is less complicated than a combi, and has less to go wrong. If it stops working, you can get by using the electric immersion heater(s) fitted to the cylinder (preferably one at the top and one at the bottom). This will be less economical that gas, and take longer to heat up (an immersion heater warms about one litre of water per minute, so you need to turn in on well before your showers). The unvented cylinder needs to be serviced by a qualified person (not all heating engineers are) and you should include it with your annual boiler service. There is not much to go wrong, but they have a pressure vessel and safety devices to prevent excess heat or pressure so should be regularly inspected or they might squirt hot water out of the relief pipe.