We are not scary or superior or intimidating. We are very nice, warm, helpful and obliging people.
Well... I am. :)
Your architect will make every effort to understand your needs, your aspirations and (I'm sorry to say) your limitations in terms of finance, time and ability to absorb stress.
I always offer a free hour (sometimes more if the coffee / wine / cake is particularly good) to chat with a potential client, explore their ideas, aspirations, needs and funds so I can (as far as I am able) truly understand what they need and what I can provide within the constraints.
Oh, and be sure you are talking to an ARCHITECT, not an architectural technician, architectural technologist, architectural designer, architectural consultant etc, etc and bloody etc!
I have absolutely no issues with the first two, perfectly capable of designing and managing a project for you but so many people use the term Architect without understanding that the title protected by law and actually illegal for someone to call themselves an Architect unless they are Registered.