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Anyone bought a house then regretted it? What did you do next?

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Raspberriesandcream · 12/04/2015 09:15

We have been living in our current home for over a year now and I'm still not entirely happy. To give you a bit of background, we were living in a 1-bed flat in zone 2 London, got pregnant and moved into a 3-bed house further out. When I was 7 months pregnant our seller pulled out, and it was a bit of a scramble to find our current home. We ended up buying in an area which wasn't my preferred choice, but seemed sensible at the time. Pros are that we have amazing neighbours, house is in a safe neighbourhood and we have more space. Cons are the area - I find it a little dull and our street is not the prettiest. House also needs work, but it's still quite liveable. We're also that little bit further from the tube, which at the time of buying seemed like a fair compromise, but is proving tricky now that our daughter is here.

DH is really happy here, and on paper, my cons hardly amount up to anything, BUT I don't like the area, even though I feel I ought to. Am I mad to be considering a move? Have you? Would you?

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meadowquark · 15/04/2015 17:42

Yep to the poster longing for the grittiness. Although my new area is visibly more pleasant, I also long for that grittiness and urban feel. However... Time flies! Before I noticed, 2 weeks have passed in my new house. I hope the sacrifice for the children is worth it.

loraflora · 16/04/2015 15:19

I regretted moving to my current house. And now I've been here since 2000, so I obviously adjusted, although there are still things I don't like about my house and the area, along with lots of things I like.

I had a reverse reaction to the OP as I had been living by the coast and came back to London because the commute was impossible. It was a choice between a poky and rather overlooked 80s house or buying a flat and I opted for the house. I soon got sick of the takeaway litter chucked into my front garden, noise, feeling boxed in etc... but in the last year I considered moving out further into the burbs for a quieter place and larger garden and after giving it some thought, decided I might get too bored. I like having lots of bars, restaurants etc near me even if there are also some annoyances which come with that.

You do need a bit of an adjustment period, I think.

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