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Oh God, I just flashed the builder

28 replies

shovetheholly · 25/03/2015 11:42

I am having a stressful week.

07.30, in my dressing gown, rooting around under the sink for a new washing up liquid. Lose my temper, decide the cupboard is too messy and needs tidying (it really did), so I pull everything out onto the kitchen floor.

The door goes. Simultaneously, the cat is sick on the oiled wood floor, which marks very easily, meaning that vom in its vicinity constitutes a domestic emergency.

I open the door, hair all over the place, to find a bloke standing there in a high vis jacket. 'I'm Paul', he says. I look at him blankly. 'I'm doing your patio?' he says. The question mark is not tentative. It is an an 'Oh my God, she's mental and I should speak slowly' kind of question mark.

'That's supposed to be TOMORROW' I wail.

He shrugs.

'I suppose you need to come into the back garden?' I say.

I then discover that the gate to the back garden is locked and the only key is in DH's pocket. DH has left for work and is already in a meeting.

'You'd better come through the house' I say. He does so, with a politely concealed raised eyebrow at the puddle of cat vom and a kitchen floor covered with about seventy bottles of almost-used cleaning stuff.

I decide that I need to use a hacksaw to remove the padlock on the gate. I decide that the situation needs to be rectified immediately, and there is no time to change. I march down to the shed, resplendent in my dressing gown, trying to look queenly and unconcerned. I march back up the garden with a hacksaw. I begin to attack the padlock with gusto. I am making good progress and I am showing that I can cope in spite of it all.

Eventually, after what seems like an age, the padlock is off. 'TADA!' I say, while spinning around in triumph. At this moment, my dressing gown somehow moves faster than I do and flaps wide open. And I am wearing nothing but a pair of granny knickers.

Oh God. It is not my day.

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PtraciDjelibeybi · 25/03/2015 11:46

Thank you Holly. Thank you. My life is one big hell hole right now and you have just made me laugh so much!

Hope your day starts improving... Smile

capsium · 25/03/2015 11:49

Magnificent! Grin

FernGullysWoollyPully · 25/03/2015 11:51
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Sizzlesthedog · 25/03/2015 11:52
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PeaceOfWildThings · 25/03/2015 11:56

Yesterday I got home to find my shirt wasn't buttoned up in the middle and I'd flashed schools, a supermarket and a town centre. I did get lots of smiles from men.

UpTownFunkk · 25/03/2015 11:59

That is brilliant Grin

capsium · 25/03/2015 12:00

Don't worry he'll be terrified of you now...

JamesAndTheGiantBanana · 25/03/2015 12:00

At least it was only your dressing gown with flaps wide open! Grin Poor you.

growly · 25/03/2015 12:31

I feel your pain, I had a wardrobe malfunction this week too, a really bad one. Sad Namechanged for this.

I was running really late. Once I'd got the kids ready all I had time for was to literally brush my hair, shove on whichever clean trousers and top I could find straight out of the wardrobe in an effort to get the kids to school this side of 9 o'clock. Shoes on and go. No breakfast, no socks, no underwear. It didn't matter, it was only the school run.

After the drop off though, I thought I may as well take my little one to playgroup. Did the usual round of crawling round playing trains and dinosaurs, sitting on teeny tiny plastic chairs, marching about to "the grand old duke of york" etc and walking round picking up the toys at the end. Then went to the corner shop for a few bits, and home.

At which point I realised that there was a gaping 3 inch split in the seam of my trousers right at lower arse to fanny area. Basically, I wore crotchless trousers to playgroup. I cried, I've been cringing ever since. Blush

What makes it worse is that I texted dh and he said "don't cry, I bet it's not even that bad, they probably didn't even see anything" so I felt a bit better. Then I modelled them for him when he got home, bent over and he said "Oh! oh my God" - I'm just mortified. Sad I wish it had been just a builder and not a load of mums I barely know. I'm never going back!

shovetheholly · 25/03/2015 12:35

Growly, I was going to send you Flowers, but I thought Wine might be better! At least I'm not the only one!!

We will have to brazen it out together. Which means I need to stop hiding in the upstairs of my house and go ask the builder if he'd like a cuppa.

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QOD · 25/03/2015 12:38

Ahahahaha haha you two have made my day!

shove my tits woukd have been IN the knickers

balancingfigure · 25/03/2015 12:40

Flowers, Cake and Wine for op and growly and thanks for cheering me up!

growly · 25/03/2015 12:42

You may very well be the highlight of his day, holly! You can't usually ruin a mans day with a flash of bosom. Brew

Momagain1 · 25/03/2015 12:43

I am so embarrassed for the both of you that I don't think I can leave my flat!

WhatchaMaCalllit · 25/03/2015 12:47

I was driving in to work yesterday and it was a beautiful (if a little chilly) morning in Dublin so a lot of the business women on my commute have moved out of their 'winter' clothes into dresses etc.

One woman was wearing a lovely dress (might have been black or navy) but it had one of those double ended zips on the back. Well, suffice to say, she was wearing pants and tights and she wasn't going commando.

How do I know this?
Well the zip that opens at the bottom had opened right up to her bottom. Blush
She was getting loads of admiring looks from the business men as she was on her way into work. Grin

Itshouldntmatter · 25/03/2015 18:23

This is the perfect thread for a commute home. Please know the your pain has had a very positive impact on my life and so I am very grateful to you all Grin Flowers

Itshouldntmatter · 25/03/2015 18:26

That sounded wrong! I'm really sorry for your shit days but very grateful for your generousity in sharing Smile

shovetheholly · 25/03/2015 18:31

I'm glad it's amusing. I am still bright red at the thought!

Oh, and growly you haven't seen my granny knickers. He is more likely to be traumatised than to have pleasant memories, trust me. It was not the stockings and high-heels presentation of the lady in Whatcha's post.

QOD - I am jealous of you for having boobs that you can tie in your knickers. Mine are too small Sad.

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PragmaticWench · 26/03/2015 10:36

This being in property and diy, did you sa e the floor from cat sick staining Shove?!

growly that's a very appropriate name for your growler flashing activities. Grin

PragmaticWench · 26/03/2015 10:36

'Save' even

FuckingLiability · 26/03/2015 10:50

Awww, holly! If it makes you feel any better, a few weeks ago, my trousers ripped right across the bum cheek. I didn't notice and had gone to the cashpoint and shop, before DH and I went to a friend's house in the car. It was only when I got out he noticed and said 'Your arse cheek!' Because we often do a kind of joking back-and-forth along the lines of 'Your mum', 'No, your mum', I thought he was doing that and said 'No, your arse cheek' back. Sadly, he wasn't joking and we were 50 miles from home and spare trousers.

Fortunately, friend had a large pashmina which I tied around my hips, boho stylee.

Well done for hacksawing the padlock off though! Great first reaction. Grin

LoveVintage · 26/03/2015 20:41

Oh god we are moving house soon. I am tempted to cancel the various tradesmen we have arranged for fear of tit or fanny flashing incident.

Marmitelover55 · 26/03/2015 21:53

I tripped on a band saw last year that our builders had left and fell v awkwardly with legs akimbo - much to the amusement of the very hunky younger builder. I was telling a friend about this today (same builders) and she said I really blushed. I did enjoy him helping me back up though

bythewindsailors · 27/03/2015 20:08

I feel so sorry for you Holly. WineFlowers.
If it makes you feel better, I have an embarrassing builder flashing story.
I used to rent an attic flat, the window in the lounge overlooked the garden, my window was not overlooked by anyone. It was lovely and completely private and so I would often wander into the lounge naked after a shower.
Except one morning, my landlord was having roof repairs and hadn't told me. I wandered into the lounge starkers without my glasses on and almost blindt. You can imagine my shock when I put my glasses on to find myself face to face with a builder on scaffolding a few meters from my window. The horror as we both looked at each other before I dived behind the curtains and desperately tried to close them by pushing them across (harder than it sounds). I then ran to the bedroom, quickly dressed and, furtively left the flat. I didn't return until after dark. Luckily, the scaffold was gone by the time I got home so thankfully I never had to face him again.
Never been so humiliated in my life. Blush

Zebda · 28/03/2015 01:26

I answered the door to a delivery man and signed for a parcel with my left boob hanging out, completely oblivious. In my defence, DD was 12 weeks old, and I'd been nursing just before the door went, my boobs were tough as old boots at the time and completely desensitised to open-air/p and due to cluster feeding, used to hanging out at all times while at home. but I'm sure this has happened to every bf-ing mum, right