We bought our first home a few months ago.
It cost a little more than £400k.
Nothing fancy - just a 3-bed new build townhouse (4-bed at a push) about an hour away from London. It's in a nice town, and a nice development full of London expats.
We would never have gotten anywhere without help from parents. DH's parents paid the deposit (close to 10%), my parents paid the stamp duty. We also took advantage of Help to Buy which we could have gone without at the time, if we bought a slightly smaller place. But we didn't want to move again in 5 years time, and therefore paying stamp duty twice.
The reason we couldn't save ourselves was that (a) DH was doing a PhD until just a few years ago (so it was basically like living on just one income - although he got a grant, so had a bit of money), and (b) living in London during that time depleted any savings we could have had.
Our mortgage payments are absolutely fine. We have also been very lucky over the last year. We signed up to buy this new build almost a year ago. It took a long time for them to finish it, and between the time we exchanged contracts and completed, I got a promotion and a nearly 30% pay rise
. My husband also got a nearly 10% pay rise. So we now have about 20% more income than we had when we first applied for the mortgage. Now that we've furnished the house, I will start overpaying the mortgage.
We would never have bought this house though if we didn't think our salaries would rise. DH and I are working hard on our careers. He is due a promotion this year, too, but we would never rest on our laurels. We both agreed that unless there's a lottery win (we don't even play!), I will never be a SAHM.
Our combined income is currently over £125k - which is a pretty nice sum, considering we don't work and live in London (for now). We want this to be considerably higher in 5 years time.