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Torn between 2 houses in Surrey. Help!

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Happymum1702 · 06/10/2014 10:29

Need help deciding between 2 houses. Sorry for the long post. But we are really struggling so I've put as much detail as possible. We've been saving for a long time to be able to afford a large family home and are sellingour current two bed. (Sale agreed) Opinions would be HUGELY appreciated!

We have a 9 month old and are planning at least one, if not two more (if we are lucky)

house A is in a town by the river where we live now. We love living here and have lots of friends in walking distance. It has great town centre in walking distance, the river and nice walks are 200m away, train station is 5 mins walk with a quick 30min train to Central London (where hubby works)

House is good size with a large garden and a garage. 4 double bedrooms (3 large, 1 small double) all bedrooms have sloping roofs = less practical to furnish. They are also not on the same floor (does that matter? Easier to be on same floor as the kids?) two bathrooms but one is on the ground floor.
it Has limited storage throughout, as the loft has been converted. Needs new floors and painting throughout. Also at least 1 new bathroom. The kitchen is an ok size but it also needs replacing.
We could live with it for now, but to get the house to be how we'd really like it, and to add the storage space we need, we'd need to extend (definitely possible, but obviously costly) Hence we are debating the point of putting in a new kitchen now or waiting until we can afford the extension (means living with a rubbish kitchen for a few years) It's on a busy through road with lots of cars going past all day, not at night.
The area is rocketing in value due to the transport links. We could make a lot of money, IF we decided to one day sell, but we need to spend to do so. It's a period property so has feature fireplaces etc. But the neighbours on one side are 'horders' their house is a TIP. The back garden has old cars in it! But apparently they've been there 30+ years, The seller has been there 20+ years and never had any issues with them.

House B is in a small town also on the river (but the house is further away from it, so it would be a 20min walk plus the path on that stretch is not buggy friendly anyway)
It's short walk to the small historic town centre which is sweet, but nothing like town A. We don't know anyone living locally but then again it's not very far from where we currently live- would just need to drive to see people instead of walking.
Station is 5 min walk away and train is just over 1 hour to Central London, or 45mins with a change. For my husband it means his commute becomes really bad. 2 trains & then the tube taking 1hr25mins. Vs house A- 1train & then the tube taking 1hr. My commute would also be extra 15mins (1hour 10 vs 55ins) but as it's driving it's not such a hassle.

The house itself is the DREAM, large, fantastic layout and space. Large garden. It could be our home forever or at least the long term. 4 large doubles & 1 ok sized single. All bedrooms are on same floor with two bathrooms, plus downstairs cloakroom. Needs renovating, with new floors and painting throughout but the rooms are huge and lovely.
Is on a very quiet cul de sac., with hardly any traffic. We've never seen such a great house within our budget. It's cheaper than house A. We can take a lower Mortgage to get it.
The house was built in 50's so the street itself & house design is less attractive. We believe the ceiling price of the house is therefore almost reached once we invest in renovating inside. The area is going up in value but not as fast as area A.
As this is the largest on the street, we are aware that the much lower value of the other houses will keep this one in check.

Schools- how much of a consideration at this time? Who knows what the primary schools will be like by the time our daughter is old enough in 2021, or the secondary schools by 2025??)

Primary Schools in both areas are the same (at the moment)
Area A has ok secondary schools but would need to go outward to get a really good one. Area B has an outstanding secondary school at the end of the road - it's one of the reasons people move to that town. But it's heavily over subscribed and very catholic (we are not) so chances of getting in are slim anyway I think. Apart from that one secondary schools are ok.

PHEW! It's so hard. Please help!

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Portlypenguin · 08/10/2014 18:47

We had this discussion last year , well sort of - smaller house in city close to work/school/friends - or move out to bigger house but nightmare traffic / commute and building new social circle etc.

We are still in the city at present and have delayed moving to save more money, will prob move next year though very locally.

I would think of this as a medium term move. Go for town A, that house if it is the best possible option on the market now,
(sounds a nice family home) whilst you have young kids. Then if you want in a few years (esp if your house grows in value) you can move again if You want to an even bigger house. I think the idea of a forever home is lovely but not always realistic initially!

Good luck

LadyStark · 08/10/2014 18:53

Why don't you say what town A and B are? Might be some locals with some useful knowledge.

I don't think house A sounds like the right house due to neighbours and house B isn't ideal because of the longer train journey - I too commute from surrey to London and I have previously done the longer commute, it being 30 minutes to Waterloo now instead of an hour was a driving factor in our move. Long commutes are rubbish.

SASASI · 08/10/2014 22:52

I know you have decided but I wouldn't go with either.

Commuting is a massive contributing factor to your daily lives, especially with children / Childcare to think about. It's because of my commute I want to work part time when I return from maternity, if I worked locally I could work full time (not Childcare costs either way but very much wanted & long awaited baby).

All bedrooms on the same floor was one of my deal breakers when looking - we have purchased a bungalow so no worries there anymore.

Decent neighbours / tidy neighbours would be a decision maker too.

I know a smaller mortgage is really attractive but sounds like it has severe pitfalls in other areas of your daily lives.

I hope it all works out!! It's such a hard decision to pick your family / forever home.

AgaPanthers · 08/10/2014 23:32

Maybe Location A is Redhill??? Not much of a river there though?

PatriciaHolm · 08/10/2014 23:45

Hmmmm. DH has a commute, door to door, of about 1hr 15, in return for which we got large 5 bed in Surrey. He's fine with it, but he breaks it up regularly with running/cycling bits of it, and working from home about once a week. Could your DH do that? It also works because i work from home so am here to do school runs etc, as it takes some planning for him to do them. Dh reckons it is worth it - we moved from Fulham, where a similar home would have cost £2m+, not happening; this was a third of that.

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