I had a quick chat with the surveyor yesterday who has two big things, both of which we were expecting: the bay window masonry has cracks, most likely due to the goddamn awful overgrown hedge at the front sucking water out of the ground, and the kitchen has damp, which you can see has penetrated the kitchen units.
The kitchen was done in the late 80s & we knew we wanted to do it anyway, so we're not phased by having to do the work. We're not sure it's rising damp, because they took out the chimney breast and laid a concrete floor so the room can't breathe, but obviously we'll have to do something.
Once we figure out what and how much it will cost then we negotiate but honestly, I haven't got a clue how - what kind of tone we strike, do we do it by email, or phone call with supporting email? Do we factor in the cost of replacing the kitchen or is that cheeky? Is there some kind of unofficial protocol? Ask for two thirds? Half?
The vendor pushed our offer up and up, turning down our first two, so maybe they did that knowing we'd come back for a reduction. I'm a bit rubbish about asking for money but I don't want to pay more than we should, so hoping the collective experience of mumsnet can give me a backbone.