We did a 6mx6m 2 storey extension in 2011 and didn't have much left out of £105,000 including VAT. We had an architect draw it up as I was worried it would look like a blob on the side of the house!
£66K went to the builder for everything up to plastering but not plumbing/electrics, and I think I bought some of the materials direct. We are in the Midlands. All the other costs were tradesmen employed by us, fairly budget kitchen, bathrooms, decorating, garden drive and patio, architect. We did knock through/partition some rooms in the existing house, but it's hard to separate those costs. Obviously costs depend on your standard of finish, most of ours was fairly mid range.
Started in October, builder pretty well mostly finished by mid February , then bits we were doing ourselves went on for another 3 months (and some for 3 years... and waiting
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The budget was initially £95k ish, but it does depend how many extras you count in, windows were more expensive as I wanted timber, garden we were given a way low quote and had to get someone in to fix it.
I think 123rd's budget is about right going on our experience.