Our back garden was completely and utterly destroyed. I could show you a picture, but it would totally out me! Basically we are putting a deck over the worst of it (costing about 1k and we are doing most of the work ourselves) which is 3m out from the back of the house. They also dug massive holes in our garden for no readily apparent reason, then filled them back in with hardcore, which we had to top up with top soil and then returf. and they left loads of crap like drainage pipes, scaffolding, tarps, the old bath etc lying around. They also knackered the drive, so we're paying a few hundred to get some tarmac lifted and relaid.
We had to pay Thames Water off, and it was only about 400. Our building control costs were 700 or so. PP was about the same. Skirting was included in the build/plastering costs, we just levered it off, laid the floor and then stuck it back on again. Was a no brainer. Also meant we could undercoat and gloss it while it was off the walls, which was handy.
Flooring, if you do it yourself, can be a bit cheaper. We did 30 sqm downstairs for about 450 quid in a niceish laminate from B and Q (collaris harlech oak narrow if you're interested) with fibreboard underlay to keep out the chill. We did the upstairs rooms for about the same in carpet (bedrooms) and vinyl tiles (gerflor, and around 7 quid a metre in the bathrooms. Black and white look particularly good in a chequerboard). Our lighting was not expensive - Ikea ceiling lamps were about 30 each in the hallways for a nice general light, a big spot bar in one end of the kitchen diner for 40 from Ikea and then I bought a lovely pendant in the Habitat sale for the kitchen. The electrician had left single pendant bulbs, so it was the work of about ten minutes a light to swap them over. Put Pendel pendants from Habitat everywhere else (a tenner I think) and bought cheapish drum shades from Ikea.
This is the extension Ikea built. I should be slightly ashamed, but it looks farking awesome and I haven't even finished it yet. I will reiterate however that even with all the cost cutting and budgeting and doing stuff myself and sourcing things as cheaply as possible, we went massively overbudget. That contingency will be really really important. In one sense we can't complain that we've managed to build a big extension and convert the loft, completely rewire the house, add three bathrooms, a new kitchen and a utility for 140k or so, but when I add up the costs, I do want to weep. We thought we would do it for 110k. Ha.