I also love a pale kitchen floor. Over many years I have failed to achieve a satisfactory result.
whitewashed wooden floorboards
Did this about 10 years ago. Never again . We didn't even have pets or DC then.
Pale amtico was expensive but looked good at first. However the non-slip surface became grimy and I could never get it properly clean after a couple of years (even with a steam mop). I also had a bit of a twitchy eye about "Lino" that I could never quite get over.
Pale tiles with dark grey grout are fantastic for cleanliness and longevity. Unfortunately they are cold and hard underfoot. If you drop something it WILL break.
Tiling onto a suspended wooden floor in an old house is a pita too - you need expensive subfloor prep and layers of Duravit etc if you are to avoid movement and thus cracking. Fine in newer build or concrete floors of course. It wasn't worth the money IMO.
I now have an engineered wood floor in a pale colour. I like it, it works for us but I still hanker after those lovely coastal white washed floorboards.