Hi. I'd really appreciate some advice here as to my options. Our new neighbours have moved in and have just informed us that they are planning major building works. Okay, not ideal as they say that the works will go on all summer and I have a newborn and toddler so I'm thinking that naps will go out the window then as well as privacy in our garden. The older owners had previously carried out building works for a few months and the noise, dust that carried over to our windows and lack of privacy in the garden (with builders overlooking us) was a irritating but something we had to put up with.
Now, I get that whilst the building works all summer will be irritating for us, it's not unreasonable for them to want to renovate their property. However, what we are concerned about is that they are planning to fully extend their rear kitchen so that it extends more than 3m beyond our kitchen (our houses are set out the same). The issue we have with this is that (a) we partially lose both view and light as the extension will obstruct this, and (b) since the extension will run the entire length of our decking, when we sit out in our garden our view will now be of a bricks and mortar wall :-(
We don't want to fall out with our neighbours as they are nice people and it is always preferable to have good neighbourly relations. We have expressed our concern already about losing light and view but they still plan to fully extend. When the previous owners carried out their building works, we lost a fair bit of light and view then which was annoying as the building works were announced the first week we moved in (the vendors of our house had failed to notify us that they had received notice of these works). So I guess we feel that we're going to lose yet more light/views and feel even more hemmed in.
Legally, I don't think we have grounds for opposing the application as the obstruction of light/view would need to be significant. We could go to mediation to get them to change their plans but then the cost and stress of this when there's no guaranteed favourable outcome and the cost to neighbourly relations makes me think this isn't a desirable option either.
We're just so upset about our neighbours plans. We haven't lived in our house for very long either.
In our shoes, what would mumsnetters advise that we do? We have been honest with our neighbours in expressing our concern but if they intend to stick with their plans to extend so far out, what real options do we have left?
Sorry for the long post and appreciate any advice or guidance that mumsnetters can give. Thanks!