Traffic wise, bottleneck is often at Brookwood. Often do Guildford to M3.
Secondary schools I think are the issue, some state ones are good, others are not. Charters in sunningdale has good rep but catchment area is small, Ascot mainly.
I would look at secondary schools, look at their catchment areas, then rule out where you don't want to be.
Guildford would certainly be more like Winchester. However the traffic is a nightmare at times, especially by Ladymead retail park.
I know someone who works in West End, they live in Fleet. Depending on time of day, the drive can not be that nice as the M3 gets very busy, 6:30-9am. Though there are various back routes through Farnborough, Frimley.
If you could stand village life, then Lightwater, Heatherside, Deepcut. Though check which secondary school would be catchment. Camberley town centre is getting an expansion, Bracknell is being regenerated. So whilst not like Winchester you will have some facilities (shopping mostly) not that far away.