By coincidence I wrote this on another thread (about design fees) over the weekend:
"Some recent single storey flat roofed extensions I have designed have worked out at between 800 and 1800 per square metre - basic build cost - (sorry pound sign not working on laptop!!). Cheapest rate was rendered blockwork on ex-council house, top rate for stone and sloping site on listed building. South West rates."
"My fees (architect) ranged from 650 to 2000 for survey, sketches, advice; and production of the building regs application drawing, which contains existing and proposed plans, elevations, site plan, location plan, basic section and notes."
"A builder could use this type of drawing to prepare an estimate but a full tender package including a specification would cost another 600 - 1000 or so."
The second storey would typically cost around 50-70% of the ground floor rate depending on the roof type.
Add another 30-50% to the lot for being in the south east of England (my rates based on west country).
Time? If you mean just the construction then you are vey much at large to an extent because it all depends on the builder and the local market however I would be unhappy if I was supervising a project of that size which took longer than 4-5 months.
If you mean the whole project from initial chat with the architect to handover (and cracking the champagne)
then allow an extra 3-6 months depending upon if planning consent is required.
Hope this helps and best of luck.