We had a new kitchen put in last year and I spent a lot of time researching what other MNers had done - thanks to all of you whose ideas we pinched!
YY to pan drawers, brilliant idea. I also went for a pull-out larder, which I love. Minimal clutter on worktop - kettle, toaster, breadbin, bowl of fruit plus damned radio so dh can listen to wretched Radio 5 live whilst washing up, everything else goes in cupboards or drawers.
We went for granite worktops and haven't regretted it as they look so beautiful, but we do keep surfaces clear and wipe them over every night. If you have granite, use an e-cloth.
We got rid of our range cooker and went for an induction hob and built in oven and microwave, which I was a bit dubious about (especially the induction hob) but best decision of the lot.
We have a gap between end cupboard and boiler, and tuck our main bin in there, so it can't really be seen. The recycling bin is in the utility room (if I didn't have a utility room then I would keep it in garage). The food-waste bin is under the kitchen sink, we have to lift it out to scrape food into it but tend to empty it into the food waste wheelie bin on a daily basis so it's a tiny bin and doesn't take up much space.
We have a peninsular set-up with a breakfast bar area on far side (it's a kitchen-diner so on the dining side of the room) facing into the kitchen area, which is really sociable as people sit there with glass of wine cup of tea and chat to me whilst I'm cooking, without being in my way. there are cupboards either side of the breakfast bar area (so on the dining side) which house the things I don't use so often eg naice china for dinner parties, table mats etc.
I spent about a year planning and changing my "dream" kitchen, and have ended up with exactly what works for us. I was a bit sniffy beforehand about the "kitchen designer" from the company we bought kitchen from, but he was actually brilliant, had some great ideas about layout, what would work best etc that I hadn't considered. He didn't pressurise us into anything we didn't want or couldn't afford.