Hello everyone
am at the end of my tether and would really appreciate your views on this. After relationship breakdown, I'm buying a flat in south London for me and my DCs. No chain involved and all the finance was sorted out beforehand.
Been nightmare from start to finish - should have completed end Aug but because of issues to do with the lease, people not being direct with me, etc. we are still not ready to exchange. Worst thing is DCs have had to miss several weeks of school 'cause we are living in temporary accommodation (holiday rental, not normal rental - it wasn't worth renting for 6 months and very difficult to secure in this bit of London) and the LA wouldn't accept it for address purposes (I tried, but to be honest, I don't have the strength to fight them about it and I kept thinking that exchange was around the corner and then we'd have evidence of where we live and the kids could go back to school).
Just as I thought this might happen, we find (on a random external visit) large, bulging cracks on the flat's patio. The surveyor looked at the property several months ago and it turns out that he didn't have access to the patio (wasn't given a key by the estate agent I think). Of course I saw the flat several times, but (thinking back) each time I saw it, old furniture and cardboard was obscuring the cracks on the patio). So, I strongly suspect these cracks were hidden from me and the surveyor (who, otherwise, found no problems with the flat). I've since contacted him and shown him the photos and he doesn't think it's an issue (i.e. it's not likely to affect the structure of the flat). The vendor is refusing to pay for a subsidence survey and I cannot afford another survey and it'll take about a month to be completed. I am desperate for my DCs to go back to school. I work miles (miles) away and am relying on a family member to help when I go to work but it's really getting me, and them, down. Plus I am recovering from cancer treatment so am very tired and have been told not to get stressed by my consultant (easier said than done).
My question is: should I just back out of the purchase altogether and start again (I don't think the cracks are subsidence related, but can't be sure. Can't afford another survey and don't want to wait a month for one to be done, plus don't trust the vendor/estate agent now). If I do this, we would need to stay in holiday rental (very expensive) and the kids are still not in school and could take months. Or, should I take a risk (the surveyor has seen the photos of the cracks and isn't worried), maybe ask for a reduction in the purchase price (to cover the costs of repairing the cracks) and exchange in next couple weeks. Sorry for the length of this email - am trying not to drip feed. Many thanks.