Arghh, had offer accepted, private sale of flat below ours ( we wanted to convert back into one large house). We didn't have a mortgage agreed in principal before we put in the offer because we had to move fast and it takes time to prepare accounts etc. went back to our financial advisor, he got our previous mortgage when DH was a sole trader and we naively thought similar terms would apply this time, ie. 3x average profits of last three years.
We were wrong, as we now have a limited company and leave some of our profits in the company (we like to have emergency money where we can't fritter it away and keep our tax bill down ) we can't get anything like enough to buy the flat or upgrade to a house with another bedroom.
We never go overdrawn, own a small commercial property outright as well as our mortgage free flat and DH has never been busier but we can't move, at least not for two or three years ( and that's only if prices stay stable)
I know I should be happy with our lot, and in some ways it will be nice to carry on without debt but we moved to this flat with one small baby and now have two teens and a big 10 year old.
Oh well, time to improve the storage and declutter, again.