I have a rough idea, DH has another idea, and I'm wondering what other people would do.
I earn £47,000 and will go up to £60,000 in 1 year with around 95% certainty. DH earns £20,000. We are 40 (me) and 46 (DH). We are unfortunately pretty much starting over again financially because DH lost (well gave away because he's too nice) everything in a divorce a year before we met. I had savings at that point but put them all into our old house which has drastically lost value since we bought it. If we sell it which we haven't had any luck with so far it will be for around £20k less than we paid and we will walk away with hopefully £25k for a deposit on our next home.
Staying in our old home is not an option because we have moved to a different area of the country for my work.
We have a car that's fairly new and paid for. No children. Other loans (my student loans) that we pay £200/month for. So how much should we borrow to buy a new house? We want a house that we will love and stay in forever. On the other hand we want to go on holiday from time to time, go to restaurants sometimes, etc. Given that DH and I are both clearly bad with money given our mistakes in the past, what would you do given our ages, income, and lack of savings? We both like our jobs btw which are about as stable as jobs can be in this economy. Thanks for any advice you can give us!