We're just about to move back to the UK after nearly 5 years abroad and are thinking of somewhere in the vicinity of Southampton (proximity to family, good transport links). DH works from home but needs to go to London/Winchester occasionally for meetings, and I'll be a sahm for at least a year and then may work at home too. On the list of possibles were Romsey & surrounding villages, Ashurst, and recently added to the list - Lymington. We're looking for smallish town/large village with reasonable amenities but good proximity to coast/forest/outdoor stuff. Preferably somewhere pretty to compensate for leaving the beauty spot we're currently in. I've heard traffic can be a nightmare, but as we're not commuting would it really be that bad? I'm assuming we could work around main busy periods and if weekends are busy we'd probably just stay put in the local area. Kids are 0 and 2 so primary schools are consideration, 2ndry not so much other than house re-sale. I've heard some negative comments about Pennington but not sure why - can anyone tell me what is bad about that area? Also, if it is best avoided, where does Lymington end and Pennington begin? And does the comments about Pennington include Upper Pennington or is that considered distinct? What about Everton? Those two places you seem to get more for your money. Any general advice on places to look or avoid would be great.