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Neighbour Demanding Compensation

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Tingo · 29/05/2013 13:55

We have just had our house renovated including a small basement (not under house but loud and annoying nonetheless). The works were properly approved and went through all party wall procedures without problems. Our neighbours, most of whom we'd known for years) were very gracious about the disruption and inconvenience we were about to inflict upon them.

After we moved out however, and the building works were underway, a new tenants (a couple) moved into one of the 3 flats next door. They had not been informed by their landlord that building works were due and were horrified to find our renovations in advance progress when they finally moved in.

The tenants were expecting a baby and had been hoping for peace and quiet in a family neighbourhood. Both tenants joined forces with their landlord to try and get us to pay them £50 a week for each week of the build to compensate for the noise and dust associated with our building works. This amounts to about £1500.

We have refused (for several reasons not least principle) but they have not let up. They have threatened legal action which we have urged them to seek but they never do - just periodically call/ email/turn up on our doorstep to harangue us.

Once the tenant threatened to make my 'kids' life a misery through seeing their mother arguing in the streets'. We have tried to remain temperate and civil throughout whatever they throw at us.

We do not know what to do. If we seek legal advice it will cost money - God knows how much. If we pay them money to go away, they may keep demanding more (say for example for stress) or the other tenants in the block might get wind of it and begin making their own demands.

Any tips Mumsnet?

PS No other neighbour has complained about our works. Several of them have complimented our builders and subsequently employed them to do other jobs. I have good relations with all the other neighbours including those adjoining our property for many years.

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fengirl1 · 29/05/2013 14:02

Tell them to stop harassing you. If they then carry on, call non emergency police number and tell them what's happening.

Sparkleandshine · 29/05/2013 14:06

I think you need to refuse to engage - the only thing you say when you see them is "I can hear what you are saying please send all correspondence by letter to our solicitors X"

You don't actually need to engage a solicitor at this juncture, if anyone contacts the solicitor about you they will let you know Grin

You could also write a letter to them saying the above and adding...

"any further harassment about this matter in the street or in person will be reported to the police, all correspondence about this matter to be through solicitor X.

Any threats such as "making our kids life a misery" (stated by XXX on 2nd July 2013) will be reported to the police and, having already spoken to the police we are advised these will be taken seriously."

ginmakesitallok · 29/05/2013 14:07

If they want compensation they should get it from their landlord. And agree with fen girl, call their bluff and tell them you'll see them in court. Cheeky buggers!

Sparkleandshine · 29/05/2013 14:07

...but TBH they don't really have a leg to stand on. You notified all neighbours prior, and can prove this.

They are just trying it on and I think police advice on this one!

ihearsounds · 29/05/2013 14:12

They sound like loons.
Tell them next time, that you have had enough and you are going to the police about the harrassment. Neighbourhoods have noise. If they want quiet live in the countryside. Their problem isn't yours but their ll.

MisForMumNotMaid · 29/05/2013 14:18

Send the landlord a letter informing him this is harassment and effectively blackmail by him/ his tenants. List times, dates etc. inform him that you have every intention of informing the police of all incidents if there is any more unnecessary contact.

Cosmosim · 29/05/2013 15:35

If they come to your door, greet them with you video camera on and inform them you are recording their threats, as advised by the police. Also, call the police and lodge threats. First one will be noted down, second or third (don't recall exactly) they will visit them or ask them to come to station for a verbal warning.

ImTooHecsyForYourParty · 29/05/2013 15:38

There's a reason they haven't taken legal action and it's what's known as 'not got a leg to stand on'

I would be sending them my own solicitor's letter saying that you consider it harassment and will be considering taking action against them for harassment and threatening behaviour if they don't cease and desist.

morethanpotatoprints · 29/05/2013 15:42

Hello OP.

I totally agree with Sparkle.

I would like to add, they have a nerve and they need to know their behaviour is threatening and harrassment.
Don't let them wear you down, I know, easy to say when not in your position.
Ok, they are inconvenienced and it may be disrupting their peace, but that is not your fault.
Whatever you do don't cave in, they are in the wrong here Flowers

NorthPolo · 29/05/2013 16:02

Do you have the legal cover on your home insurance? They may help? I agree with the others saying they're trying it on, if you gave that sort of money to one set of neighbours they would all want something, where would it end!

Khaleese · 29/05/2013 16:18

It sounds as though they have convinced themselves that you owe them and will pay! spent it already

^^sparkles letter is great, use that. Cut this dead, it's rediculous.
I would also contact the letting agent, say their tenents are threatening you.

The landlord may also need a letter as someday s/he may need to do the works. It would also be bad for him to have neighbour disputes.

thefirstmrsrochester · 29/05/2013 16:41

You don't hand over a bean!
They sound completely crazy. And I agree, they are harassing you so do speak with the police.
All this before their child is even born? I can just imagine how their absurd behaviour is going to escalate in the coming years.

Tingo · 30/05/2013 08:00

Thanks All. I will speak with the local police today as we are genuinely worried at what they might do to us now.

Also we have decided to pay for a solicitors letter - our first ever legal appointment! So sad.

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