Firstly, I am writing so that I have a record of what was said and when it was said. I have talked to him about these issues before and nothing has been done. On this very wet day today, I have water leaking in through the kitchen near electrics, and I have had enough. I don't want to piss him off, or give him an excuse to evict or put the rent up, but I am so sick of the cold and damp. We can't move anywhere else, because there's no one who will accept the cat. He lives 300 miles away and we have seen him about four times since we moved in seven years ago.
"I hope you're well. I just wanted to remind you of a couple of issues with the house, which are getting to the stage that they need attention fairly urgently.
Firstly the bathroom ceiling, which you saw last time you were here. It's a job which is beyond either of us, as it needs re-plastering. The condensation when the shower is on has caused it, even though we leave the windows open or the dehumidifier on every time it's used. This condensation is worse than normal on account of there being no extraction or heating in there. This damp has caused the untreated wood in the bathroom such as the beading around the skirting boards and behind the toilet to start to rot.
Again, the kitchen walls underneath the conservatory lean-to have water leaking in when it rains and when the wind is from the east (like today). I mentioned this last time you were here, and over the last very wet and cold winter, it has got considerably worse, with paint and plaster flaking off and mould growing down the corner. I think if it is left much longer it will become a structural problem
This is in addition to the general damp in the kitchen caused by the cold and the lack of extraction - I'm afraid the oven which you bought only 18 months ago is already starting to rust, even though again we have the dehumidifier going or doors and windows open when cooking. I try my very best to keep the house mould-free e.g. I varnished all the wood, which was all untreated, in the house when we moved in - kitchen worktops, cupboards and doors - but there are stubborn patches of it appearing in corners everywhere.
Perhaps when spring comes and everything dries out and warms up, it would be a good time to get things sorted with the leak and the bathroom ceiling, before another very wet spell does more damage?
I look forward to hearing from you.
With kind regards,
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Is he legally obliged to sort this out?