I've recently moved into a small terraced London house on a very quiet no through road. Every 8 or so houses there is a locked gate which leads between the houses to the path that runs between the backs of houses on our road, and the road behind. I have a key to the gate.
Today I had a tree surgeon to remove a large quantity of branches and opened the gate for him (3 houses away from me). Apparently the man who lives in the house adjacent to the gate told the tree surgeon that the gate couldn't be kept open, it wasn't for access or removing rubbish; the gate was to be kept locked as a security measure. And, incidentally, this would then prevent his cat from getting into the road. He said that all rubbish had to be brought through my house. I went and had a polite word, he was a very rude youngish man holding a small child (I am a much older woman), and said that I wanted to be able to use the gate, and would ask the tree surgeon to close the gate behind him.
I have the Deeds to my house, and there's no mention of the rear entrance, and the drawing useless as it's such small scale. Any ideas as to how I can avoid this happening again? I'm planning on having the fencing and shed replaced, and would obviously want them to go through the back exit and not through the house.
I can understand that there might be security issues if the gate was unlocked on a permanent basis, but this was 8.00 in the morning, and would have been for a couple of hours. And of course, any of the other gates on this road or the one behind could be permanently unlocked, and he would never know it. I don't want to fall out with my new neighbours, but neither do I intend again to be spoken to in the manner that he employed this morning.
Apologies for lengh, and advice please.