My fiance and I are trying to buy a house in the so-called 'village' area of Forest Gate (we can't afford a house where we live now) and whilst there seems like there's a lot going for it (can afford a 3 house house with garden, good primary school, good transport links, some lovely terraced streets, Wansted Flats nearby, Crossrail will be there in a few years), I've been scared by some of the discussion threads on the internet suggesting it's very rough and dangerous, and not a nice place to live at all, let alone with small kids.
I know it's not a posh area by any stretch, but it does seem like it has a nice community, and that there are early signs that it might be getting nicer. I'd love to hear from anyone living there (particularly in the area around Godwin Road, Lorne Road etc) or who knows it, as to whether it's a good place to start a family? I'm particularly concerned about security (i.e. is it sensible to walk back from the station when it's dark in the evening?), and the general atmosphere, and whether there's much going on for new mothers? i.e. mother/baby groups.