Yes you're right. I think I was trying to persuade myself that a modern kitchen would work mainly because they're cheaper than the painted wood Plain English style I really love. But I don't think it's worth saving a couple of grand in the scheme of things.
The problem is I really want an island or wide peninsular, and I can't get this to work comfortably in the space we have, especially with a more traditional style (incorporating a range cooker is more tricky, but I do love ranges!)
The room is big - around 6m x 4m - and there is a wide opening to what was going to be the dining room, which is also a good size - about 5.5m x 3.5m I think. I'm trying to fit a kitchen and family area into the bigger room but there are 4 huge windows (will prob block one up), patio doors and the wide opening. 4 metres just isn't quite wide enough to have a run of units on either side with an island down the middle (around 930mm either side which is a bit cramped I think. DH and I both very tall and not very thin!). And the family area is rather cramped.
So now I'm wondering if we should just go for a U-shaped kitchen with the dining table in the kitchen and a much larger family room through the opening. If that makes sense. We'll have a separate living room and kids' room. So we are lucky to have space, I just can't get it to work well, and we've scrapped the idea of extending to make the house really work well.
Do you think a large (and the only) dining table in the kitchen would be ok? I'd have to keep the kitchen much tidier! We currently have a very small table in the existing kitchen and a separate dining room (down the hall) that we rarely use.
I'll definitely post out plans and some designs later, I'm on my phone now and just about to go to watch DS play rugby.
And thanks if you've read this far!