Bletchingley is a nice village. All on the one main road (the A25), but pretty, and I wouldn't mind living there, except it doesnt suit us location wise.
Commute not great, imo. you can go from Nutfield (about 2 miles away) to London bridge in 45 mins-1hr. but with added hassle of driving to statin, parking etc.
yes, Redhill is nearest big town. it's not great. Crawley also close by - again, ok but not naice.
good for transport links - Gatwick is a hop and a skip away, and M25 also cose by.
plenty of nice little villages/small towns, but with little more than the odd useful shop and bakery.
pretty area though.
imo, there are nicer houses for the money, within reasonable striking distance.