A good friend has had her house on the market for 9 months and has had three offers which all fell through for various reasons to do with the prospective buyers. She has found a place to move to and luckily the owners are waiting for her. The current offer on her place is from someone connected to the university in their city (mentioning no names it's one of the Oxbridge unis, to give you an idea of the size of institution she is dealing with) and the uni is buying 40% of the house.
The uni's lawyers are being incredibly slow and have requested specific surveys in addition to the usual one. The house is in very sound condition - friend spent a lot on getting it underpinned, new drains, new roof etc. My friend is petrified that after all the waiting they will come back asking for money off (which friend cannot afford to agree to).
She has two small DCs, one of whom should have started pre school in September but didn't cos they were meant to be moving - he is terribly unsettled and wants to start this new life he keeps hearing about. They are making the move to be nearer her DH's work - he currently stays away from home 3 nights per week as work is too far to commute daily. The new place is around the corner from his work... They are desperate to have a normal family life.
What can she do? It seems the uni is all powerful and faceless. She doesn't want to seem desperate in case they start bargaining, which she can't afford.