We?ve recently sold our house and are living in a rental house while looking for something to buy. Finding something that we want is proving to be a bit harder than we thought it would be, so are exploring self building or renovating something.
A very wrecked house on the edge of a village that we like has recently come up for sale with the option to either renovate or demolish it, as it comes with planning permission for a new build on the site. Not so keen on the demolition/new build because it is far bigger than we want, or need, and would mean going backwards to revised planning permission, etc. Also not sure about taking on a complete wreck of a house and need some wisdom from Mumsnetters please.
I understand from the owner that the house is wind and water tight, with the roof renewed approx. 10 years ago, but everything else would need to be done. Full strip out, electrics, plumbing and heating, plastering, windows, doors and garden would need to be landscaped and fenced. It?s a 5 bed house at the moment without being extended, which is more than large enough for us, on a nice sized plot of about half an acre. It was apparently inhabited up until 2 years ago. We?d want a nice standard of finish but not particular super high-end, if you see what I mean and would want to include a greener heating option (ground source or air source) as it is fairly rural.
Can anyone point me in the direction of how to begin calculating a reasonable budget for this please? We?d contract out the work mostly. I?d guessed maybe £100K, but that is a complete a finger-in-the-wind figure.
Have any of you done this with a successful ending, or could anyone suggest any websites for checklist, hints and tips, etc.
The more I think about this, the more I think we are slightly nuts and clueless to be considering it, but it?s very seductive to think about having a house finished exactly to your taste without starting completely from scratch. 
Lay it on me - are we insane? 