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Hampton School, Dulwich College or Alleyn's

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ThatNoisyZebra · 01/02/2026 12:35

I’d really appreciate any views on the following schools, and how others might rank them for Year 7, if choosing between them.

For context, my DS is academically bright (CAT average 141), works hard, is sociable, and generally well-rounded. He’s decent at sport (not elite), enjoys creative subjects, and is a polite, grounded boy. We live in SW London.

The schools we’re considering are Hampton, Dulwich College, and Alleyn’s.

In terms of logistics, the school bus would be approx 45 minutes to Dulwich and Alleyn’s, and around 1 hr 20 to Hampton. He’d move to public transport from Year 8 onwards in theory. We have no strong preference for all-boys vs co-ed.

All three schools are clearly excellent, which makes this a hard decision, and I’m trying to arrive at some sort of ranking.

Hampton is my DS’s favourite, and we’re very impressed by the academics and sport, but the distance does concern me and probably pushes it down the list slightly.

Dulwich is a beautiful school and seems to be on a strong upward trajectory under the new Head. Results look solid and improving, and it feels like a place where my DS would do very well and be happy.

Alleyn’s appears academically the strongest overall and the co-ed environment is appealing. While it doesn’t quite have the same feel for us as Dulwich, my DS has recently been interviewed for an academic scholarship there, which obviously adds another dimension.

I’d love to hear from anyone with experience of these schools, or thoughts on how they compare — particularly in terms of academic stretch, pastoral care, and day-to-day life for a bright but fairly balanced child.

Thanks very much in advance and i hope other parents will find peoples views useful.

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hockeyfun · 01/02/2026 20:56

Are you waiting for offers in the next 2 weeks? If so the travel to the open days for offers might help with the visit to Hampton especially if you go by train and then get the TfL bus from Hampton station to the school. 1 hr 20 is a long journey, you can get there on the school bus from Ascot or Leatherhead in less time but if you are near Wimbledon many do travel to Hampton / LEH from there by the school coaches. Have you thought about dropping off and picking up for sports matches at the weekends or going to concerts etc.
Once you get the offers parents / dc often find the journey time and sports offered are the deciding factors in accepting a place. Plus if you get an academic scholarship for the fees reduction / lack of costs of coach for other schools.

SheilaFentiman · 01/02/2026 20:56

I would not contemplate a 1h 20 commute to school if you had the option of a 45 min commute to a comparable school;. That's time and energy being taken away from homework, chilling out etc.

Wintertime2025 · 01/02/2026 22:25

Already I think 45 mins (one and half hours a day) is too long. Surely you know Hampton is a flat no. 3 hours spent getting to school/logistics of friends.

ThatNoisyZebra · 02/02/2026 04:50

Thanks for the sanity check. I’ve done the journey myself in an uber for the open days, assessments and the interview, and it felt pretty excessive. However, a few of his friends already do the same journey and say it’s fine — although it still feels like a long one to me.

Any thoughts on DC or Alleyns?

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Charlotte120221 · 02/02/2026 13:21

We had the DC/Alleyns choice many years ago and went DC.

Both great schools but very different vibes.

I'd make the same choice again - DC was the massive public school that encouraged DS to find his passions. The teaching that he had was consistently excellent and inspirational. Exam results are a side product at DC - the aim is to encourage them to learn broadly and there were lots of extra curricular weeks/clubs that enabled that.

DD was Alleyns and it was smaller and more nurturing. Easier to get into the sports teams than a single sex school. She flourished there.

Onemorebubble · 04/02/2026 09:20

We had the Dulwich and Alleyn's choice last year. We went for Alleyn's and can not be happier. There is something for everyone, sport and creative clubs at lunch as well as sports clubs after school. All like minded kids that are encouraged to try everything.

ThatNoisyZebra · 04/02/2026 10:29

Great to hear kids and parents are super happy with both, so i'm still torn if DS gets an offer from both. At least you've given me confidence that either would be great and the choice may not even be a thing come Fri 13th. Fingers crossed!

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Onemorebubble · 04/02/2026 11:28

@ThatNoisyZebra if your son has been invited back for an academic scholarship i am sure he will receive and offer. We were in the same position last year and we did receive an offer. Good luck with the decision! Just to add the school bus from SW is super easy and social. You need to take into account you will need to be at school for class music evenings, plays, sport fixtures on weekends etc so the closer the school is the better.

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