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Kings School Canterbury vs Oundle School

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OverseasMum234 · 03/12/2025 21:56

Hi,

`i am posting on behalf of a family member here. She is an overseas mum that is looking at the schools above for A-levels for her son. Admission has been granted for both schools and we like both but looking for reviews/experience/feedback of either.

Full boarding will be used as they are an overseas family. The child in question is very high achieving and will be moving to the UK for the first time. Very open to experiences of good extracurricular experiences and good cultural diversity.

Anyone with experience or thought of either school? Decisions need to be made shortly.

Many thanks!

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InTheNotswolds · 04/12/2025 06:57

No specific help (sorry), but if the child is full boarding and it is their first time moving to the UK it is worth considering logistics. Is a family member/friend being nominated as a guardian/in loco parentis? Where will the child spend exceats? Can anyone come to watch the occasional sports match / play? These aspects really matter to a child settling away from home.

PermanentTemporary · 04/12/2025 07:01

Relatives have had what they describe as a great experience with KCS. Music is a huge strength there. Their parents were in London and they went home most weekends.

KruelladeVille23 · 04/12/2025 07:40

Academically the top sets in both schools will deliver very similar results. Both have a majority of full boarders. Kings has a substantial number (maybe 25%) day students but they tend to spend most of their weekends and evenings at school.

Student body at Kings is diverse - China, HK, Nigeria, Europe. Many non UK students in leadership roles. But all who enter at 13 have to pass the entrance exams in English so no EFL students. They would be diverted to the International College. So your kids are not acting as language teachers!

Friends with DC at Kings have highlighted the music and arts provision. Music is genuinely first class. Drama great. They have an Arts Festival “Kings Week” at the end of the Summer term. The city location is great and allows students to spread their wings. Great preparation for University.

Friends with DC at Oundle generally happy. Most of the ones I know are UK based with family connections in the North but I believe there are many overseas boarders too.

You are not going to go wrong with either school. I would be looking at logistics. Access to the airports your DC will be using. Any family connections? Will you want to come and attend matches etc.

OverseasMum234 · 04/12/2025 11:30

Thank you so much for the responses. We will digest them and come back with more questions.

One question I have now is how are guardians or host families usually arranged, and what is expected of them during term time?

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KruelladeVille23 · 04/12/2025 11:43

Overseas students need a guardian who can collect them from school in an emergency and look after them in UK during exeats.

In practice emergencies are rare eg school closed because of infectious disease, fire, flood war etc. Or a child could be suspended or expelled for poor behaviour.

Depending on the child they may go to guardians for exeats but in practice they will be invited to friends. Parents need to liaise with potential hosts and the House Parent as the school will not take responsibility for this.

The parent needs to arrange a guardian independently of the school. This is a legal, safeguarding requirement. If you do not have UK based family or friends to do this, there are several agencies which offer the service and the school will point you to ones parents have used in the past.

easternenergizer · 04/12/2025 12:14

Oundle is a great school and I really did love it, but the one area I think they genuinely need to look at is what happens after Oundle. Which might be relevant in this instance I dont know.

Oxbridge – Exceptional, just not getting as many students in over the last 10 years. A lot of that is down to national changes (state school quotas etc.). I don't think the school has less intellectual talent. Some rejections were honestly baffling.

Russell Group – Very Strong.

Now for the bit people don’t always talk about…
US applications – This is weak. For a school of this calibre, the support just isn’t on the same level as everything else. More students should be reaching Ivy level, and the scholarship guidance really needs improvement.
Europe – Because it’s not an IB school, fewer look at Europe anyway, but even those who are interested don’t get much encouragement or structure.

Overall
When it comes to leaving Oundle, those who maybe don’t want an academic uni path I would encourage to take charge themselves. And sometimes actually push back on Oundle. In my experience (and that of a lot of Oundelians I know), the school could improve its support.
Too many bright students get nudged into the default “good grades → academic degree → RG/Oxbridge” route simply because they can, not because it fits them. I know so many very frustrated who ended up doing creative master’s degrees later because they were quietly steered into something “sensible” at 18 when they’d always known they were an actor, filmmaker, musician, etc. Which is ironic because Oundle produces some seriously talented creatives.
Most do eventually figure themselves out, but it can make their twenties more chaotic than they needed to be. Maybe all schools are like this, I don’t know, but most Oundelians I’ve spoken to agree it’s an area the school could improve.
And honestly, I do laugh at some of the Oundle negatives on here because most of them are nonsense The negatives are harder to spot, and this is one of them.

IdyllicLandscape · 04/12/2025 13:43

Interesting post @easternenergizer. I used to know someone who boarded at Oundle from age 11. He went down the academic degree at a Russell Group uni path and it very much didn't suit him. He floundered for years trying to figure out his direction, and gave off an air of being 'educated above his intelligence'. By that, I mean he had reasonable grades and this degree on paper, but in the real world appeared utterly unintelligent and lacking any critical thinking. I felt like he must have been intensively coached through GCSEs and a levels. He could also bluster through situations in a Boris Johnson-like public school trained manner. It set him up to decidedly unimpress in the workplace, and his career, and self esteem, suffered accordingly.

A case study of one quite some time ago, and perhaps not a situation exclusive to that school, but interesting nonetheless.

easternenergizer · 04/12/2025 13:47

IdyllicLandscape · 04/12/2025 13:43

Interesting post @easternenergizer. I used to know someone who boarded at Oundle from age 11. He went down the academic degree at a Russell Group uni path and it very much didn't suit him. He floundered for years trying to figure out his direction, and gave off an air of being 'educated above his intelligence'. By that, I mean he had reasonable grades and this degree on paper, but in the real world appeared utterly unintelligent and lacking any critical thinking. I felt like he must have been intensively coached through GCSEs and a levels. He could also bluster through situations in a Boris Johnson-like public school trained manner. It set him up to decidedly unimpress in the workplace, and his career, and self esteem, suffered accordingly.

A case study of one quite some time ago, and perhaps not a situation exclusive to that school, but interesting nonetheless.

Yes I mean I guess it happens in other places but sometimes, even if youre getting AAA* at A level, youre destined to be a photographer or a creative or whatever and Oundle seemed to think "right, Oxford for you". I think Oundle is not good enough in this regard. Lots have had to, frankly, have the courage to go back and do a different masters aligned to them because of Oundle's lack of support and direction. It's a bit lazy.

However OP this is a very small amount of cases.

OverseasMum234 · 04/12/2025 19:03

Thank you so much for your points of view. I really appreciate them.

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easternenergizer · 04/12/2025 19:16

OverseasMum234 · 04/12/2025 19:03

Thank you so much for your points of view. I really appreciate them.

Welcome - good luck ! Any other questions happy to answer

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