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shaddupayouface · 05/11/2024 19:50

Hi
Does anyone else find that if they email the school with queries about lessons/teaching that they have to wait days for a reply?

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elozabet · 05/11/2024 19:52

Sometimes.

I would rarely email in unless something very important. Do you regularly email in?
Teachers generally can only respond out of lesson time so if they have a full teaching day, they may not have time to get back to you that day.

Sosijiz · 05/11/2024 22:38

Nope. Same day.

shaddupayouface · 06/11/2024 12:59

We are told to email specificaly because teachers are in lessons and can’t come to the phone.

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elozabet · 06/11/2024 18:29

How long have you waited. A day to two - fair enough. But a week is not on.

Some days teachers an have a full teaching day plus meeting straight after school and need to get home straight after work (pick up from childcare etc) so there just isn't time to email back. I would expect an email within a few days unless the staff member is absent.

Also very much depends on how urgent the matter is.

alwaysonadiet1 · 06/11/2024 18:33

Our school has a 48 hours maximum for replies policy during term time. Have you sent a few?

crazyunicornlady73 · 06/11/2024 18:35

How often to do email "queries" in and how long does it take to get a reply?
Teachers are busy during the day teaching your child then busy in the evening preparing lessons for your child.
If your emails are infrequent and important then yes I'd expect a reply within a couple of days so they can fully support the child.
If, on the other hand, you are a PITA that regularly emails them quibbling and moaning over small details well then i wouldn't blame them for being slow to respond 🤷🏽

shaddupayouface · 06/11/2024 21:33

Really? If a parent is emailing then they obviously think it’s important. If you want to create a bad relationship with a parent then ignoring them is definitely the way to go.

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StSwithinsDay · 06/11/2024 21:35

Do you regularly email the teacher?

shaddupayouface · 06/11/2024 21:38

alwaysonadiet1 · 06/11/2024 18:33

Our school has a 48 hours maximum for replies policy during term time. Have you sent a few?

I emailed two days before half term and heard nothing so I emailed again at the end of Monday (which was the first day back) as I still hadn’t heard back. I asked if she’d got my previous email and she said yes but didn’t apologise for the delay. I’ve asked her a specific question about helping my son and she’s yet to answer it. I do worry about being a “nuisance” so I’ve left it for now but I do think it’s bloody rude if not totally unprofessional.

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shaddupayouface · 06/11/2024 21:39

StSwithinsDay · 06/11/2024 21:35

Do you regularly email the teacher?

No this is the first time I’ve emailed her.

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Smartiepants79 · 06/11/2024 21:40

With most members of staff - no. I often get almost immediate responses if sent outside teaching hours. Sometimes at the silliest times of the night!
A couple of staff members I have contacted never replied! It was mostly for their own information so I never made much of it. It left a poor impression of that staff member though.

Smartiepants79 · 06/11/2024 21:42

shaddupayouface · 06/11/2024 21:38

I emailed two days before half term and heard nothing so I emailed again at the end of Monday (which was the first day back) as I still hadn’t heard back. I asked if she’d got my previous email and she said yes but didn’t apologise for the delay. I’ve asked her a specific question about helping my son and she’s yet to answer it. I do worry about being a “nuisance” so I’ve left it for now but I do think it’s bloody rude if not totally unprofessional.

That’s pretty rubbish.
As a private school I expect them to take a dim view of such poor communication.
I’d send another email and cc in their immediate superior - head of year or head of department etc.

elozabet · 06/11/2024 23:24

That's seems a reasonable time to expect a response so yes, I would think that was unprofessional. Even if I didn't have the info yet I would have sent a reply acknowledging the email by now.

If you haven't heard by the end of the week, email again but copy in head of dept/ head of year or whoever their manager is.

shaddupayouface · 07/11/2024 09:06

Yes some teachers are great at getting back to me if I need some info. However, the headteacher isn’t particularly great at replying either so I’m not going to get much help from her on this matter I’m sure. I haven’t met the teacher in question yet, she started at the school in the summer term. I will be seeing her at the parents evening in a week or two so I’ll bring it up then and hopefully she’ll change my impression of her. I know emails can be tricky when trying to interpret someone’s character.

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