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To think a lot of people who agree with VAT on school fees…

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geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 17:44

Actually don’t truly understand that to most sending their kids to these schools, it is a massive, massive struggle already.

There seems to be a mentality that if you can afford 20k a year then you’re already comfortable so sod it, you should find more cash now for vat … but do people in general not understand that some families re mortgage their homes to pay these fees? Yes there’s mega wealthy people but there’s many, many more who are not.

On the one hand we hear a good education is a luxury so VAT must be applied, then on the other we are told a good education is a right for all. So… why are we taking away that good education from those who already have it? Why is the focus not on sorting out the state sector properly? We all know the vat won’t fix the state sector. It may help in a tiny way in ad hoc circumstances but there’s so so so much more that needs to be done to state schools to make them ever match what the private sector offers.

I simply don’t get this mentality that those making sacrifices must make more when it comes to bloody education. I say this as someone who can’t afford the fees but if I could I absolutely would… and I also acknowledge that I am unwilling to go to some lengths that others will to pay it. I respect the choice of others to make such sacrifices and have no desire to make it harder and more inaccessible for the masses to access it. Similarly, I know plenty of people driving fancy cars and spending loads on holidays… they’ve chosen that over school fees. And those who have spend loads getting into a postcode of a decent state school… should they be paying enhanced tax on their house purchase?

Why do most people think those who pay schools fees are doing so with great ease? Is it basically because they don’t personally know people paying this so accept the media narrative that it’s the mega rich only?

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CaptainMyCaptain · 06/10/2024 18:11

Wishihadanalgorithm · 06/10/2024 18:06

I do know parents who have really struggled to send their children to indies. Some remortgage their houses, others work two jobs and this is because the state sector has let their kid down.

Yes I suppose they are lucky they can even dream of affording the fees, even considering the sacrifices they make, but don’t forget these people already pay tax and are alleviating the state of the burden for educating their child.

Maybe all indie parents should indeed be taxed properly - after all maybe they should get a tax rebate for the fact they are saving the state thousands a year by not having the state fund their children’s education? About £6k rebate should do it!

People without children pay tax towards education because we all benefit from an educated workforce. Those paying for private school education for their own children will still benefit from other people's (apparently inferior) education.

MrsSchrute · 06/10/2024 18:11

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:10

@MrsSchrute the problem is forcing kids to be removed from a place where they are receiving a good education. You know, the education you’re saying everyone should get? How does that start with taking it away from those who already have it? Remember, it’s about all kids. So those in private matter too, right?

Now, I partially agree that this should not be implemented part way through an academic year, but I strongly refute the assertion that the only way to get a good education is to go private. That is simply untrue.

IVFmumoftwo · 06/10/2024 18:11

If a rise in fees is enough to take kids out of private school then you obviously couldn't afford it. Excuse me if I see through the faux concern about state kids.

Bazinga007 · 06/10/2024 18:11

Private schools are running a business of course they should pay VAT.

I think a lot.of parents are more worried about their friends finding out that they aren't as rich as they are pretending to be, so it does make me chuckle.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:11

Completelyjo · 06/10/2024 18:09

@geeenuoe but that’s the thing isn’t it. It’s not actually top 5, it’s top 10, but even so… do you realise that circa 30k after tax is still a huge amount of money to someone earning 80-100k a year? Can you not see that is a massive stretch?

I really really doubt anyone earning 80-100k is funding private school fees totalling 30k a year unless it’s paid by grandparents.

@Completelyjo well… @geeenuoe has confirmed that actually they do. It’s the top 5 percent of earners.

This is the problem… nobody wants to accept that someone on 100k would willingly give up that proportion of their income for their child’s education. But they do. At most private schools certainly in the regions.

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SoberSchmober · 06/10/2024 18:12

WolfFoxHare · 06/10/2024 18:07

I neither agree nor disagree. It’s pushed private school from a hypothetical stretch to probably impossible for us, but I don’t think it’s the human rights abuse some posters seem to think it is.

Exactly this^^

I'm sure there are downsides to adding VAT to school fees. But the way people have been bleating on about it on MN is astounding. You used to be able to afford private and now you can't. At an individual level, that must be rough. But considering how some people live in this country, it is so tone deaf to go on about it.

Fwiw I went to private school and work in a state school - have worked in a few. I have no issue sending my kids, including one with SEN to state. Honestly, the comp I work in is better than the private school I attended. Everyone I know who went to boarding school has had struggles with their MH as a direct result. It's just wild that people are acting as if not being able to afford private school is a crime against your human rights

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:12

Bazinga007 · 06/10/2024 18:11

Private schools are running a business of course they should pay VAT.

I think a lot.of parents are more worried about their friends finding out that they aren't as rich as they are pretending to be, so it does make me chuckle.

@Bazinga007 you clearly don’t know anyone from private schools. Some parents really care about their child’s education. That’s why they break the bank to make it work.

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SlugsWon · 06/10/2024 18:12

RachPelders · 06/10/2024 17:46

Actually don’t truly understand that to most sending their kids to these schools, it is a massive, massive struggle already

Most? No.

Some? Yes.

I understand. I just don't care 🤷‍♀️

Me too

Completelyjo · 06/10/2024 18:12

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:10

@MrsSchrute the problem is forcing kids to be removed from a place where they are receiving a good education. You know, the education you’re saying everyone should get? How does that start with taking it away from those who already have it? Remember, it’s about all kids. So those in private matter too, right?

People keep spouting this about other hypothetical people but I’ve yet to see any data showing the these apparent mass removals of private school children upon introduction of VAT.

Changingplace · 06/10/2024 18:13

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:10

@MrsSchrute the problem is forcing kids to be removed from a place where they are receiving a good education. You know, the education you’re saying everyone should get? How does that start with taking it away from those who already have it? Remember, it’s about all kids. So those in private matter too, right?

But nobody is forced to pay for private education, like anything you pay for you can either afford it, or you can’t. If people now can’t afford it so be it, those that can will pay the vat into the system so it can be better used to support public services.

The only thing I’m shocked about is that it’s even been exempt for so long, there’s no reasonable reason why it’s never been paid.

sparklyfox · 06/10/2024 18:13

The VAT raid will have no effect on the super rich whatsoever. They'll be able to afford it regardless.
The people who will be impacted are middle earners who make sacrifices to send their kids to private school.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:14

MrsSchrute · 06/10/2024 18:11

Now, I partially agree that this should not be implemented part way through an academic year, but I strongly refute the assertion that the only way to get a good education is to go private. That is simply untrue.

@MrsSchrute so it’s becoming a bit circular isn’t it… if some state schools are good enough then leave the mugs paying for private to it? Can’t be a luxury if the state sector is just as good, can it.

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KatieL5 · 06/10/2024 18:14

AlertCat · 06/10/2024 18:00

While those parents are giving their money to private schools, they’re depriving their local school of their support, which impacts on all those 90-95% families who could not even dream of affording private education. Furthermore, I don’t think most of these people are paying for a better education- they’re paying for social connections for their kids.

I couldn’t disagree more.

Firstly the private school parents are funding the state sector they don’t use. Without their “free” money the state sector would collapse.

In my experience the idea that people use private schools to cultivate connections is a total myth. I don’t know anyone who used a private school connection to advance their career.

superplumb · 06/10/2024 18:14

I won't lose sleep over it. It's all relatively isn't it. Things change prices go up and you decide what you can and can't afford. I would say that if you are really scrimping and saving to send children private and there is nothing at thr end of the month, it's risky to do so. Fees can go up without vat and like anything in life people need to imagine whether they could afford it if things go up, like mortgages, can uou afford an extra 100 a month if rates change.. if not then you need some thing cheaper.

MrsSchrute · 06/10/2024 18:14

Some parents really care about their child’s education

The vast majority of parents really care about their child's education. The vast majority of those children go to state school.

thepariscrimefiles · 06/10/2024 18:15

iamtheblcksheep · 06/10/2024 17:59

No they don’t because most of them are so far up their own arses with jealousy they cant think straight.

A lot of the children at my child’s school are either on bursaries or have parents that have two, three jobs to make ends meet.

Then there are parents like me. I couldn’t give a toss if you put another 20k/30k on school fees. I can afford it. The new laws are not punishing the people they intended to punish.

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It's not supposed to punish anyone. It is meant to raise money to spend on state education, you know the education system used by about 90% of the population.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:15

SlugsWon · 06/10/2024 18:12

Me too

Cared enough to open the thread and post!

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Wishihadanalgorithm · 06/10/2024 18:15

For those who think this is a good idea, just research what happened to Greece when they added tax to school fees.

Be careful what you wish for….

ThisTimeNextWeekDavid · 06/10/2024 18:15

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:07

@ThisTimeNextWeekDavid I think education should be a priority. I think the state sector in this country is appalling. Of course all children should have a good education. But that doesn’t start with taking a good education away from those who already have it, does it? It starts with working on the schools that really need to improve. Vat won’t solve it.

But that doesn’t start with taking a good education away from those who already have it, does it?

well, it definitely starts by funnelling the money to the majority.

Also, you’ve complete ignored my 1st post about ‘affordability’.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:15

thepariscrimefiles · 06/10/2024 18:15

It's not supposed to punish anyone. It is meant to raise money to spend on state education, you know the education system used by about 90% of the population.

@thepariscrimefiles you do understand that some vat on fees won’t fix the state sector?

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Completelyjo · 06/10/2024 18:15

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:11

@Completelyjo well… @geeenuoe has confirmed that actually they do. It’s the top 5 percent of earners.

This is the problem… nobody wants to accept that someone on 100k would willingly give up that proportion of their income for their child’s education. But they do. At most private schools certainly in the regions.

The average private school fees are nowhere near 30k, so no I don’t at all believe that there is a huge amount of people taking home less than 5 fucking grand a month and somehow paying 30k school fees from that.

Noname99 · 06/10/2024 18:16

thepariscrimefiles · 06/10/2024 18:07

You do realise that there are thousands of families that have to make a choice between heating and eating who have never had a holiday. You must live in a middle class and affluent school catchment area

Like those thousands of pensioners who will have to make a choice between heating or eating this winter?

Changingplace · 06/10/2024 18:16

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:12

@Bazinga007 you clearly don’t know anyone from private schools. Some parents really care about their child’s education. That’s why they break the bank to make it work.

I think you’ll find the vast majority of all parents really care about their child’s education, just because most can’t afford private school doesn’t mean they don’t care.

I actually couldn’t care less whether someone who could previously break the bank to pay for private can’t now afford it, such is life, there’s loads of things I can’t afford, I don’t expect anyone else to care about it.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:17

Completelyjo · 06/10/2024 18:15

The average private school fees are nowhere near 30k, so no I don’t at all believe that there is a huge amount of people taking home less than 5 fucking grand a month and somehow paying 30k school fees from that.

@Completelyjo well until you know first hand you will live in this deluded land where people have to be millionaires to use the private sector.

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geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 18:18

Noname99 · 06/10/2024 18:16

Like those thousands of pensioners who will have to make a choice between heating or eating this winter?

Yes labour was a good choice all round everyone

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