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Cambridge University discriminates against children from private schools.

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Marchesman · 13/09/2024 17:34

MN threads persist in claiming that Oxford and Cambridge Universities do not discriminate against private schools. Now two "academics" have written a half-baked book that argues for further reductions in the number of Oxbridge students from private schools (to 10% of the intake).

In 2023 at Cambridge 19.9% of students from comprehensive schools obtained first class degrees (23.5% from grammar schools) compared with 28.6% from private schools - evidence of unequivocal discrimination against the latter at the point of entry.

Cambridge's own analysis shows that British state-educated students already significantly underperform relative to foreign and privately educated British students. If more of the latter are excluded, the inevitable outcome will be that at these universities the best students are foreign, while the best British pupils decamp to US universities.

Is this really what the Left wants? If so why?

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mm81736 · 18/09/2024 10:35

Ceramiq · 17/09/2024 18:24

Employers like the so-called soft skills that privately educated students have in spades.

What soft skills? The private school swagger, the arrogance, the misplaced sense of their own importance which they fondly imagine is confidence , but deeply unappealing to 90% of the population?

Drfosters · 18/09/2024 10:47

Haroldwilson · 18/09/2024 10:12

10% is still more of the country than actually attend private school, right?

I went to Oxbridge from a state comp in noughties. I'm not surprised privately educated students did well, they all had a ready made social network there whereas I knew no one. Then they spent their holidays in villas etc while I worked in a meat factory. And they had career plans and inspiration from their social network.

My favourite PM is Lloyd George, brought up by a cobbler and smashed the landed gentry, founded welfare state, curbed house of lords. We could do with more like him.

This is just so bizarre. I went private and to a RG uni (ok not Oxbridge but I know people who went to Oxbridge from my friends and their experience was similar) but I know of no one that had a ready made social network. No body knew each other- how would that be possible unless everyone was on the same course and the same uni? Private school children do not just hang with private school children once at uni in some weird secret private school society. Everyone just is desperate to find people to hang with so not be a loner for 3 years. I am amazed you think people can be that picky. I honestly think back to the people I went to uni with and I have absolutely zero idea where they went to school.

and villas and whatnot? They went on holiday for a couple of weeks to Spain like a whole lots state educated children do? I don’t know anyone who didn’t get a summer job whatever their background. I certainly did and some of us got internships, some of us working in pubs, some doing random jobs from an agency. I spent weeks stuffing envelopes from what I recall- quite lucrative!

all my friends from school were the children of teachers, accountants etc and that so the same for my children. There are a few super rich I don’t deny but most are pretty ordinary, living pretty ordinary lives. I feel this is just you seeing things that actually weren’t true even if you felt they were and it just perpetuates this idea that that there is a massive divide when there isn’t.

TheaBrandt · 18/09/2024 10:47

I’m not arguing that any old lummock be a heart surgeon 🙄. Dh is a case in point. First in his family to get to university (Cambridge). Parents blue collar workers who left school at 16. He’s amazing at his job just as good if not better than his St Paul’s / good family peer group.

TheaBrandt · 18/09/2024 10:54

Arguably the talented child from a less supportive background has more fire. Listened to a radio 4 program a startling number of people who rose to the very top in varied areas had lost a parent before the age of 10.

Drfosters · 18/09/2024 10:58

mm81736 · 18/09/2024 10:35

What soft skills? The private school swagger, the arrogance, the misplaced sense of their own importance which they fondly imagine is confidence , but deeply unappealing to 90% of the population?

the irony of someone making a truely unpleasant comment about the alleged unsubstantiated unappealing traits of private school children…

CurlewKate · 18/09/2024 11:07

One thing private schools tend to teach, and most state schools don't is debating and public speaking. In my glorious reign all kids will debate. I'm always surprised when politicians and members of the royal family give rubbish speeches. What was that elite education for, ffs!!!!

Fishgish · 18/09/2024 11:08

nervouslandlord · 18/09/2024 10:10

I don't want to be operated by a surgeon who got all contextual offers and is a diversity hire

I don't think you understand the way contextual offers work, or the benefits they may confer on all of us.

My children went to a school whose students occasionally got contextual offers for Bristol. As it happens they weren't interested in Bristol so didn't apply or benefit. But others did. They're all now in their mid to late twenties, and include one doctor who we know quite well. He has gone through the same training and exams as any of his privately educated non contextual peers and would have been chucked off the course long ago if he wasn't up to scratch.
What a dreadfully ignorant and divisive comment that was about contextual offers.
Oh and that school went into special measures short after our children left. So I suspect an A gained there is every bit as good as an A star elsewhere.

Children at Private Schools can get contextual offers.
Please research contextual offer and who gets. A child can be educated privately, and still be a carer, still be disadvantaged in another way. Many private school students are from disadvantaged backgrounds. Many many schools offer scholarships and students can get contractual offers despite being in private education.
And contextual offers are made by other Unis, not just Oxbridge …

The same faulty assumptions that an A and state is worth more than A* private.
Not every private is Eton

Not every state is bad or In special measures, and reasons for special measures don’t necessarily impact every student or every year group, and often for safeguarding and not academics. Can be related to serious safeguarding or policy failures that don’t impact every student.
And who says student at this school doesn’t have a private tutor or a hothouse Oxbridge Alumnus parent providing academic support?

Oxbridge offers don’t require 3A, a few programs require two A, most require one A* or AAA and offers from Oxbridge often same grades required for other RG. So if you don’t meet the offer for Oxford, your safety choice can’t be imperial, lse or Bristol.
So, mostly, not requiring impossible grades or beyond other RG. Many programs require an entry exam and video interview (panel style). With support available if you don’t easy access to laptop or phone ...

nearlylovemyusername · 18/09/2024 11:12

@TheaBrandt

Well done to your DH, he's really inspirational example.

He’s amazing at his job just as good if not better than his St Paul’s / good family peer group.
Absolutely, however, does this mean that St Paul's / good family peer group should be excluded from the run? I'd imagine that your DC who have successful and supportive well educated parents now fall into at least the second (good family, assume not St Paul's) group. Fallowing your logic they should be excluded? or is this school type only you're against of? don't you see the irony here?

Just a thought - with VAT policy a very significant proportion of parents will move their DC to state (possibly not move now, but won't go for private at the next transition point). Those who stay will be true elite and most likely will go to US/St Anfrews. This means that pool of state kids from "good families" will expand making it very difficult if possibly at all to differentiate within state. What will you have then left? FSM/foster care?

Arguably the talented child from a less supportive background has more fire.
Quite possible, esp when it relates to family situation. It does not mean though that simple State/Private school cut means less supportive background.

TheaBrandt · 18/09/2024 11:26

Of course I’m not sating private school people should be excluded that’s insane but surely you can’t argue against there needing to be adjustment so talent from other backgrounds can get through? Hardly think that’s a controversial position. The years where private school confers a natural advantage really need to end.

1dayatatime · 18/09/2024 11:29

@CurlewKate

"One thing private schools tend to teach, and most state schools don't is debating and public speaking"

No they don't, sure there are debating societies they can join but it's not as though it's on the curriculum and everyone does it.

Plus plenty of state schools have debating societies

TheaBrandt · 18/09/2024 11:37

The EPQ requires them all to do a presentation to parents and staff about their method and topic. I know because we sat through them! There seem to be frequent prompts to do public speaking in schools now.

HeavyMetalMaiden · 18/09/2024 11:44

Fishgish · 18/09/2024 11:08

Children at Private Schools can get contextual offers.
Please research contextual offer and who gets. A child can be educated privately, and still be a carer, still be disadvantaged in another way. Many private school students are from disadvantaged backgrounds. Many many schools offer scholarships and students can get contractual offers despite being in private education.
And contextual offers are made by other Unis, not just Oxbridge …

The same faulty assumptions that an A and state is worth more than A* private.
Not every private is Eton

Not every state is bad or In special measures, and reasons for special measures don’t necessarily impact every student or every year group, and often for safeguarding and not academics. Can be related to serious safeguarding or policy failures that don’t impact every student.
And who says student at this school doesn’t have a private tutor or a hothouse Oxbridge Alumnus parent providing academic support?

Oxbridge offers don’t require 3A, a few programs require two A, most require one A* or AAA and offers from Oxbridge often same grades required for other RG. So if you don’t meet the offer for Oxford, your safety choice can’t be imperial, lse or Bristol.
So, mostly, not requiring impossible grades or beyond other RG. Many programs require an entry exam and video interview (panel style). With support available if you don’t easy access to laptop or phone ...

‘Many private school students are from disadvantaged backgrounds.’

This a ridiculous statement. There are, of course, different ways to define ‘disadvantaged’, but chair of the Independent Schools Commission admitted only 1% of pupils get a full bursary. It’s 6% at Eton- hardly ‘many’.

As for the granting of bursaries, any claim this means that private schools contain ‘many disadvantaged’ pupils is also ridiculous. The majority of bursaries go to middle class families with a good proportion connected to staff discounts, music and sport. Less than half of them help less well off families with fees.

Bursaries as they stand today are just a scammy attempt to create a bulwalk against criticism of the sector.

Drfosters · 18/09/2024 11:47

1dayatatime · 18/09/2024 11:29

@CurlewKate

"One thing private schools tend to teach, and most state schools don't is debating and public speaking"

No they don't, sure there are debating societies they can join but it's not as though it's on the curriculum and everyone does it.

Plus plenty of state schools have debating societies

This was actually discussed in the press the other day
https://www.theguardian.com/education/2024/sep/16/state-schools-should-set-up-debating-clubs-says-senior-eton-leader

State schools should set up debating clubs, says senior Eton leader

Jonathan Noakes also suggests training teachers to encourage discussion, as government focuses on oracy

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2024/sep/16/state-schools-should-set-up-debating-clubs-says-senior-eton-leader

nearlylovemyusername · 18/09/2024 12:57

whiteroseredrose · 13/09/2024 17:47

All that suggests to me is that privilege lingers.

I remember hearing an article on the radio about a woman from a rough comprehensive school who had massive support from her teachers to get to Oxford. Cue happy ever after - but it wasn't. She just didn't have the same cultural capital that her peers had. The lecturer making jokes in Latin that she had never learned. Extra books and theatre experiences that she hadn't had growing up. She felt behind and an alien.

Absolutely nothing to do with her intelligence or ability, just lacking all the extra leg-ups that her more privileged classmates took for granted and continued to have.

I remembered this post.

So the person finds themselves surrounded by people with more cultural capital.
They have an option to learn and grow own cultural capital.
Instead they shout "unfair privilege" and want to exclude this group from the environment. And by doing this (excluding) make the environment poorer for everyone.

My DC now move to state, they won't be classified as PS anymore for uni purpose. They know Latin, we were discussing issues like Lehman crisis when they were about 7yo, they read Yuval Harari at 9, they travelled the world (albeit on the very cheapest option), regulars to museums / galleries/ theatres / libraries.

How do you deal with this privilege? Because person from the above example will feel equally overwhelmed in company of kids like this.

Araminta1003 · 18/09/2024 13:07

I think we have all been brainwashed by “education, education, education”, culminating in Gove & his curriculum, tons of kids pushed into unis etc and the chickens are coming home to roost now.
The academics will scream on the side, because the uni sector is overinflated.

The real issue is quite simple. It is absolutely fine to be a chef like your father and be brilliant since you cooked in the kitchen with him since you were 4. It just has to pay a proper wage and housing needs to be reasonably priced and being a chef and doing it well, should be just as respected as being a uni professor or doctor. We actually need more properly trained electricians and apprenticeships. We don’t need more people pushed into studying politics, clearly.
And that is why I keep going on about intergenerational wage mobility. We have failed on that.

Most kids who really are inherently talented and bright are actually discovered early on by good primary school teachers. They do need better support into secondary schools but really state schooling should be able to cope with that, and in most cases, it does. It sometimes fails when there is SEND involved. I would love for every child in the UK who has deprivation factors (including ill health of parents etc) to have an ongoing educational mentor.

Ghilliegums · 18/09/2024 13:13

Also, anecdotally every state school kid I've seen at a top uni found it a doss - while the private school kids have to slog to keep up

I don't know how people can actually type this stuff, let alone believe it.

Ozanj · 18/09/2024 13:17

1dayatatime · 18/09/2024 11:29

@CurlewKate

"One thing private schools tend to teach, and most state schools don't is debating and public speaking"

No they don't, sure there are debating societies they can join but it's not as though it's on the curriculum and everyone does it.

Plus plenty of state schools have debating societies

They do teach it at preps because many secondary prep interviews need you to be articulate. But it’s in forms you won’t realise is important unless you know about they impact public speaking and confidence - eg dance / theatre / debate club / music / sports

Marchesman · 18/09/2024 13:18

nearlylovemyusername · 18/09/2024 09:50

Two sentences in this post contradict each other.

Yes, absolutely, we do need meritocracy. Meritocracy does mean that the plum jobs can and should go to the children of those with plum jobs if these children are the best.

I don't want to be operated by a surgeon who got all contextual offers and is a diversity hire, I want my surgeon to be the best one selected even if they are 10th generation of medical dynasty (I'd dare to say even better so).

Your understanding of meritocracy is that you get a pool of candidates, exclude children of successful parents from this pool and then select out of those who left. This is not meritocracy and this will make life for everyone much worse.

Just a thought - you do know that your pension is held by pension funds which invested it in shares of various businesses, right? Which shares would you prefer to have in your pension? of those businesses who hire predominantly for diversity and contextualisation or do blind recruitment based on candidates skills? Knowing that outcome directly affects your retirement income?

With first hand experience of this (and colluding with it - albeit reluctantly) I absolutely agree. Years ago, too many to recall exactly, the proportion of doctors who were the children of doctors started to be seen as a problem. This was the start of a search for "diversity" in the medical profession. Inevitably this meant a shift in emphasis from academic attainment and all it involves (gratification delay, resilience, memory, intelligence etc) to "soft skills" (emotional intelligence, interpersonal skills etc) and changes in the curriculum to accommodate it. Unfortunately, anatomists, pathologists, bacteriologists, biochemists, physiologists, radiologists, anaesthetists (mostly), and in my experience, orthopaedic surgeons get by perfectly without these soft skills.

In the past the system took care of itself, directing people into speciality areas that suited their skill sets. Now an unremitting stream of extremely basic fatal mistakes has become the norm, and junior doctors work fewer hours but with expectations and behaviour that on the whole would have been unimagineable thirty years ago.

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HeavyMetalMaiden · 18/09/2024 13:59

nearlylovemyusername · 18/09/2024 12:57

I remembered this post.

So the person finds themselves surrounded by people with more cultural capital.
They have an option to learn and grow own cultural capital.
Instead they shout "unfair privilege" and want to exclude this group from the environment. And by doing this (excluding) make the environment poorer for everyone.

My DC now move to state, they won't be classified as PS anymore for uni purpose. They know Latin, we were discussing issues like Lehman crisis when they were about 7yo, they read Yuval Harari at 9, they travelled the world (albeit on the very cheapest option), regulars to museums / galleries/ theatres / libraries.

How do you deal with this privilege? Because person from the above example will feel equally overwhelmed in company of kids like this.

Alternatively we could decide that some kinds of ‘cultural capital’ should be regarded as of lower value. Anyone making quips in Latin outside of a Latin glass where if safe to assume most understand is a Bojo-esque cock in my experience. Latin is useful in small number of fields of scholarship, but pretty much irrelevant in most other fields. It’s nice your kids read Harari. But he’s an OK pop sci/history writer, hardly the stuff of university reading lists. As the curriculum becomes increasingly decolonised we should place more emphasis on other forms of knowledge.

Drfosters · 18/09/2024 14:08

HeavyMetalMaiden · 18/09/2024 13:59

Alternatively we could decide that some kinds of ‘cultural capital’ should be regarded as of lower value. Anyone making quips in Latin outside of a Latin glass where if safe to assume most understand is a Bojo-esque cock in my experience. Latin is useful in small number of fields of scholarship, but pretty much irrelevant in most other fields. It’s nice your kids read Harari. But he’s an OK pop sci/history writer, hardly the stuff of university reading lists. As the curriculum becomes increasingly decolonised we should place more emphasis on other forms of knowledge.

lets face it most people are terrible at Latin (it is very very hard to get to grips with) and my experience and experience of my children is that most drop before GcSE. A few fantastic linguists take it further but the rest of us came out with ‘Caecilius est in Horto’….And that is literally given me no cultural capital in 25 years. The idea that private school pupils are quipping away in Latin is ridiculous.

EmpressoftheMundane · 18/09/2024 14:11

mm81736 · 18/09/2024 10:35

What soft skills? The private school swagger, the arrogance, the misplaced sense of their own importance which they fondly imagine is confidence , but deeply unappealing to 90% of the population?

Perhaps you are a little biased and stereotyping? It’s conceivable that parents choose private schools because they care about manners and old fashioned values and will pay for a school that aligns with those priorities.

Not many parents would pay to turn their children into jerks. It would be self defeating.

nearlylovemyusername · 18/09/2024 14:29

HeavyMetalMaiden · 18/09/2024 13:59

Alternatively we could decide that some kinds of ‘cultural capital’ should be regarded as of lower value. Anyone making quips in Latin outside of a Latin glass where if safe to assume most understand is a Bojo-esque cock in my experience. Latin is useful in small number of fields of scholarship, but pretty much irrelevant in most other fields. It’s nice your kids read Harari. But he’s an OK pop sci/history writer, hardly the stuff of university reading lists. As the curriculum becomes increasingly decolonised we should place more emphasis on other forms of knowledge.

What else "we" should decide is a lower value cultural capital (in quote marks?)?

Shall we limit selection of books to university reading list?

I'm sure you don't realise that you're creating a fast lane to the bottom. That in an internationally mobile world UK will quickly become a sink hole education wise? You see a gap and instead of trying to bridge it by raising, you want to shave off those at the top.

Marchesman · 18/09/2024 14:37

Haroldwilson · 18/09/2024 10:12

10% is still more of the country than actually attend private school, right?

I went to Oxbridge from a state comp in noughties. I'm not surprised privately educated students did well, they all had a ready made social network there whereas I knew no one. Then they spent their holidays in villas etc while I worked in a meat factory. And they had career plans and inspiration from their social network.

My favourite PM is Lloyd George, brought up by a cobbler and smashed the landed gentry, founded welfare state, curbed house of lords. We could do with more like him.

The number that attend private schools is less than that.

However, the meaningful numbers are of pupils who reach the end of secondary education. Specifically those who reach the basic standard below which, as a rule, coping with Oxford or Cambridge's (current) academic standards is not possible.

Respectively they are 15% and 30%.

My favourite is Churchill who saved Europe from Nazism; less keen on Lloyd George, who called Hitler "the greatest living German."

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HeavyMetalMaiden · 18/09/2024 15:35

Marchesman · 18/09/2024 14:37

The number that attend private schools is less than that.

However, the meaningful numbers are of pupils who reach the end of secondary education. Specifically those who reach the basic standard below which, as a rule, coping with Oxford or Cambridge's (current) academic standards is not possible.

Respectively they are 15% and 30%.

My favourite is Churchill who saved Europe from Nazism; less keen on Lloyd George, who called Hitler "the greatest living German."

Where do you stand on Churchill and colonialism?

Fishgish · 18/09/2024 15:36

HeavyMetalMaiden · 18/09/2024 11:44

‘Many private school students are from disadvantaged backgrounds.’

This a ridiculous statement. There are, of course, different ways to define ‘disadvantaged’, but chair of the Independent Schools Commission admitted only 1% of pupils get a full bursary. It’s 6% at Eton- hardly ‘many’.

As for the granting of bursaries, any claim this means that private schools contain ‘many disadvantaged’ pupils is also ridiculous. The majority of bursaries go to middle class families with a good proportion connected to staff discounts, music and sport. Less than half of them help less well off families with fees.

Bursaries as they stand today are just a scammy attempt to create a bulwalk against criticism of the sector.

Festering … and just downright unpleasant you are.
How dare you call these children scammers!

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