feeling a little bad and wondering if I have done the right thing, it's not really an important issue in the grand scheme of things but is now playing on my mind, the situation is this, Ours is a small village primary school, my daughter is in the foundation class. Next week is the school play, foundation do not take part in the play as quite rightly it is too much for 5 year olds to do the two evening performances. Due to lack of space in the school hall and fire regs tickets are limited to 2 per family and any left over are offered to those who have expressed an interest from the classes who are the main part of the play. Even though I only have one child in the school at this time and she is in foundation so not taking part I still have a ticket allocation. I was not planning on going as my child is not in it so when one of the other Mums in dd class who also has a child further up the school asked if she could have my tickets as her older child has a speaking part I said yes straight away. The other Mum gave my the money and I requested the tickets with my form in my name. That day at pick up dd teacher told me that the secretary had told her I had requested tickets and the teacher asked me to confirm I knew my dd was not in the play. I said that I knew dd was not in the play and left it at that but now I am starting to feel a bit edgy about my 'decit' and wondering it it was the right thing to do or not, my first thought was that it was my ticket allocation to do with what I saw fit and the Mum who I am giving my tickets to would probably have got her extra tickets any way once all orders were in and they could see how many extras they had given the her older dd has a main part (the extra tickets are so her 18 year old dd and the children's grandfather can go as well as the parents) but then I got thinking about how not all the people who's children have a main part would know all the foundation parents who don't have older children to ask for their tickets and that makes it unfair! I know this is really small fry and probably I am way over thinking things but I have started to feel like I am lieing to the school and I not a person who ever really lies (and if for some reason I do try I am completely see through lol!) and it's making me feel uncomfortable (but not to the point I would tell the other mum she couldn't have my tickets, I would feel even worse if I went back on my word!), I just wanted to know what other people thought and what they would do. Sorry for the long rambling explanation couldn't seem to get it any shorter, sorry!