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Why does my child's primary call the teachers Miss/Mr Firstname?

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cockles · 05/07/2010 21:16

I've never come across this before in the UK - anyone know why it is? It's an ordinary state primary in a mixed inner London borough.

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ShoshanaBlue · 05/07/2010 22:36

Ha ha ha - sorry, it just reminds me of the old programme 'Crossroads'!!! Is there a Miss Diane?

scurryfunge · 05/07/2010 22:38

How strange...either first name or not,not a mixture

cupcakesinthesnow · 05/07/2010 22:41

I used to teach in Hong Kong and this was the practice at my school - althugh think it was more to fo with fact first names were easier for the chinese kids to pronounce.

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LynetteScavo · 05/07/2010 22:43

It's usual in private nurseries and ballet classes.

I think it's lovely, if rather twee.

DreamTeamGirl · 05/07/2010 22:43

How unusual
My dad was recently in hospital and the drs there used there first names, I found it really odd at first- like they were pretend drs, or like that one from The Simpsons (Hello everybody, hello Dr Nick!)
It grew on me tho

Linnet · 05/07/2010 22:50

My friend in America is a teacher and she is called Mrs Laura by her pupils,I've seen it happen occasionally on American tv programmes, maybe more popular there. I've never heard of it here.

HouseofCrazy · 05/07/2010 23:48

Apparently it is more casual and friendly and bond forming??

At church the DC's call the adults by miss/mr firstname as the adults are known by the firstname but the mr/miss is added as a sign of respect for their elders. But schools I think it is as I said above.

EduStudent · 06/07/2010 00:16

Perhaps they have a lot of teachers with ther same surname. An influx of Smiths, perhaps

Clary · 06/07/2010 00:19

Yeah Lynette, ballet eh? DD's ddance teacher is Miss Penny.

Her old teacher was Miss Emily, even tho she was married!

Never come across it in a school tho.

At my new place of work (a secondary school) you are Miss or Sir, again regardless of marital status

cockles · 06/07/2010 11:10

I thought it was weird - why not teach the kids how to talk to adults normally ie Miss Lastname? Think the head is Australian, maybe it comes from there.

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LynetteScavo · 06/07/2010 14:56

DS will be going to a high school where they call the teachers by thier first names.

I asked him what his form tutor is called and he said "Dorothy".

Even though I knew they called the teachers by their first name, I just found this weird.

LynetteScavo · 06/07/2010 14:56

I will probably find myself calling her "Miss Dorothy"

nappyaddict · 06/07/2010 14:59

Is it state or private school Lynette?

varicoseveined · 06/07/2010 15:05

They do this at DD's nursery.

DaisyFields · 06/07/2010 15:14

My BF's goddaughter from the US calls me Miss Daisy. She calls any adult Miss/Mr X out of respect. Even calls her step-mum Miss. It's very sweet of her, but took me a while to get used to.

ProfessorLaytonIsMyLoveSlave · 06/07/2010 15:15

At DS's school most of the teachers (other than the Head) opt to be called by their first names with no Miss/Mrs/Mr (I assume it's optional because there is one solitary Y2 teacher who is Mrs Lastname). I have noticed that some of the parents still refer to the teacher as "Miss Firstname" when speaking to the children, though, so I assume it's an attempt to make the use of first names seem slightly more formal.

I have heard of it in US schools and preschools, particularly in the South.

Druzhok · 06/07/2010 15:16

They do it at my kids' nursery.

It's just a name, innit?

dotty2 · 06/07/2010 15:20

My parents' GP is Dr Dan - but that is because he has a very hard to pronounce African surname. Maybe there is someone on the staff with a tongue twister name?

They do it at my DDs' nursery and it is as others have said twee but I quite like it - a bit more formal/respectful than just first name but still friendly.

BreastmilkDoesAFabLatte · 06/07/2010 15:24

At the university where I'm based many of the international students call the lecturers Dr Firstname. I like it.

LynetteScavo · 06/07/2010 15:44

It's state, nappyaddict.

PixieOnaLeaf · 06/07/2010 15:45

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SuzieHomemaker · 06/07/2010 15:48

It's normal in the Netherlands though there it was Juf Diane (or whatever and J being pronounced a Y IYSWIM).

nappyaddict · 06/07/2010 15:52

In the UK Lynette? I like it.

mummytime · 06/07/2010 15:56

My DCs primary just uses first names. Lots of places in the US are more formal than the UK though (I loved being ma'am when I worked there).

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