Yes.
I will admit to having experience of a PRU. My feral urchin has ever been feisty, but this became uncontrollable after his mum, the lovely (if fearsome) Mrs Goth dropped dead. After a period of exclusions from mulitiple schools on his part, and denial, self-flagellation, and avoidance on my part, I finally allowed him to attend a PRU.
It was the right move. The PRU had small classes, motivated teachers with near one to one attention. He began to learn again. Yes many of the other kids were from horrifically deprived, neglectful and/or abusive families.
But many were actually quite nice. And several seemed to love to spend time, a lot of time, at Goth Towers. I wondered what awaited them at home.
But be warned. When I moved (at Xmas) into a different authority I went to see their equivalent provision. It was astonishingly poor, effectively an extension of the criminal justice system. I refused. He has since attended a fantastic village school, with his own TA (he has a fully funded statement, the PRU sorted that for us), and is moving on to a highly academic and high perfoming state secondary in September.
I am proud of him, and grateful to the PRU and the rural primary.
So be aware of the following points.
- The PRU is a staging post. He will either return to mainstream education from there, or be channelled into EBD provision with a statement. You must decide which is best. I shudder at long term EBD provision (0.5% of kids there achieve 5 GCSEs. Oh yes) but it is better than repeatedly failing in mainstream.
- Fight for a statement unless your DS's problems improve rapidly. Use it to get one to one help to facilitate mainstream return. REMEMBER mainstrean education is your child's right, unless he is posing a danger to others.
- PRU and EBD provisions vary. Like all schools do. You are his parent, you still have a choice. Yes, be guided by the advice education professionals give, but look at the provision first. Talk to the people. Decide.
- What has the Ed Psych said? Have ASD/ADHD/ODD or similar been ruled out?
Good luck! I am happy to be of any further aid, just ask.