Thanks, that is helpful. Breaks have been a big issue with DS's school. They haven't seen the need to accomodate breaks unless he looks so tired that he's basically slipping under the table on to the floor (literally), then they send him with the register to the office which is progress.
I suppose ASD can be 'invisible' so teachers don't really understand the issues which go with it unless the child's behaviour causes a problem for the class/them.
I think the teachers see it as 'social work' i.e. it's not catch-up numeracy or literacy but talk about the social communication/sensory side of things and there seems no understanding.
So we have SALT offering to set up IEP targets and school do it themselves althoguh they have minimal understanding.
They train a TA on the Early Bird Plus course with us and move her from the class as soon as she's finished the course, leaving no one ASD trained in the class.
They don't write in the home/school book unless DS (who is 7) hands it to them which he can never remember to do without prompts which they won't give
SALT and Autism Outreach suggested social stories, help cards etc. None of these have been implemented because 'he's fine'.
A copy of the Autism Outreach report was given to me two months ago. It is pretty helpful. However, I realised, on looking at it last week, that it was the actual report. So I asked SENCO who confirmed they didn't have their own copy. I'm not sure when they were going to notice this. Doesn't bode well for the recommendations being implemented
I can't understand the reluctance to put him on the register, provide a pathway of support and ask for external help. Everyone who has come in has said he needs a whole variety of supports so perhaps that is the answer. The old TA told us that each time she came back from the course she would be greeted with 'Oh God have you got more work for us'.
I need to get away from that attitude as it is like getting blood out of a stone - a smiling, highly academically driven stone