We lost our appeal for my daughter (reception) to be at the same school as my son (yr 1).
In Sept my children will be in two different schools one which local to us and the other is 4 miles away from us.
We moved into the catchment area after the schools in take and the local school had no places for my son even though he went there for nursery, resulting him to go to a school 4 miles away from us and sitting on a waiting list. We should have moved into our new house in January but due to solicitors problems ended up moving in July, missing out on any offers in between, admission where aware of us moving but where unable to offer us anything until we had moved into the house and then we had to have a welfare visit.
Currently I am driving my son to a school 4 miles away and then dropping of my daughter at our local school for 9.00 am - she is always late. When I am struggling I rely on my friends who have children of their own, we have no family to help us.
We wanted our children to be in the same school 4 miles away as my son is in yr 1 and settled we had the opportunity to move him (18 months later) to the local school, but due to his behavioural issues and health issues (stress and hair loss) we chose to leave him there and move our daughter over to the school he is currently at.
But because we swapped my daughters choice of school over on 10 Feb even though offers were made on 25 Feb it was classed as a late application (no one informed us about a cabinet member) resulting my daughter to sit on a waiting list at no.3. Even though she has a sibling at the school she is priority no. 3, children in the catchment area or moving into the catchment area have priority, which means she can move up down and stand no chance of getting into the school.
Logistically it is impossible to be at two places at once. One school starts at 8.55 - 3.15 pm and the other school starts at 9.00 -3.20 pm up to year 2 and then year 3+ both schools start at 8.55 ? 3.30 pm. It takes me approx 20 mins to get my son to school and 25 mins back due to traffic to get my daughter into school ? she is always late. I am putting my life at risk and my children?s life at risk getting them from one school to another on time.
We can't afford childcare costs as my husband has had to have a major pay cut to save jobs, he?s having a third operation on his foot in the summer and will be off work for 3-4 months as he was last year. My health is in a bad way at the moment due to all the driving around, stress and depression. We will be financially broke come September due to the extra expenses. I am currently seeking work but due to my daughter only being in nursery half days it is impossible to find anything and even if I do find work everything I earn will go on childcare costs!
We had a supporting letter from our doctor, MP and my husbands company. When we presented our case I was nervous and didn?t manage to get all our main points across and ended up crying and getting all frustrated when the panel asked me questions and when admission presented their case to the panel. It was a daunting experience and I now wished I got a representative/solicitor etc. involved. I have spoken/heard of parents who have won their appeals due to logistic reasons and late applications. We can?t appeal again but can get in touch with ombudsman/solicitor (very expensive).
I am beside myself at the moment thinking away around the whole situation and even thought about getting a solicitor involved and borrowing money from the bank! I can understand what you are going through!