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Is this too much for a 4 year old?

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BattyKoda · 25/03/2010 19:55

My 4yo DS is at preschool, he's due to start school full time in September. He gets homework once a week, usually 2 sheets of tracing letters, colouring picture, circling the correct number etc. He gets 2 books, one for me to read to him, one for him to read to me, he reads to the teacher once a week and swaps his book. He also has had the alphabet to learn, which he has, phonetically (sp?!) and the 'normal' way, so he has progressed onto 'bear' words (a selection of words on flashcards), which he does with the teacher once a week and at home with me. I've just had a look in his folder and he's now been given the 3rd set of bear words, which is great, it means he's learnt the first two sets, but I can't help feeling a bit.... too much too soon? Shouldn't he just be having fun and making friends at preschool? Or is this normal?

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Ineedsomesleep · 26/03/2010 14:11

Don't worry about him being the odd one out, how will he know at this age?

Do they have to do the homework. DS' homework isn't compulsory and this week we haven't done any as he is too tired and has too much on.

BattyKoda · 26/03/2010 14:18

Last time he didn't do it, it was returned with 'please try' on it.

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SarahMumtoAlex · 26/03/2010 14:57

Its worrying you. I'd speak to the teacher about it.

Our preschool is keen for DS to drop his nap. We aren't. We tell them again and again that he can sleep when he needs to.

This is your last year where you can say no. When they are in school a teacher does have a right to send it back with 'please try' A preschool teacher does not.

madwomanintheattic · 26/03/2010 18:36

lol. dd2 has just started getting a poetry folder in y1.

they are getting a bit ahead of themselves, for sure. i'm mildly concerned that this is going to lead to all sorts of problems come SATS testing lol and for junior/ secondary transition if this continues throughout the school...

seriously - it really doesn't warrant worrying about, but i'd be having a chat and asking how they think their current ethos matches up to the new eyfs. that's honestly enough.

zapostrophe · 26/03/2010 19:01

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mrz · 26/03/2010 20:08

Kumon teaches nothing other than how to fill in their worksheets. Faced with "real" maths Kumon children struggle.

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