DD started school last week, and all's been absolutely fine so far, until today when she told me that another child had hurt her. I asked her about it and she told me that a boy had pushed her head against a wooden fence. I asked if she had told anyone to which she replied "I told a lady (am guessing a dinner lady) who said it was just an accident".
The problem is I then asked her if it was an accident but she said that he did it on purpose. Now she's not very assertive and I know she wouldn't have turned around and told 'the lady' this. She's mentioned this boys name several times over the past two weeks but in a friendly way e.g. that he helped her with her coat zip, or they played together at break time, but I've also seen him at school drop offs/pick ups and he can be very [can't think of the word but stereotypically 4-year-old boyish if that makes sense ].
I've reinforced that if anything happens again then she's to tell me but I'm just worried. Will I be neurotic PFB-ish person if I mentioned it to her teacher tomorrow just to let her know so that if any other incidents were to happen she knew that other things had happened, or do I just make a note of it myself just in case?
I know I sound crazy don't I? But I know how these things can escalate.