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Boys, trapped inside because of snow, let rip in unsupervised classroom. DD is very upset : (

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Spidermama · 11/01/2010 21:56

The kids finally went back to school today. They weren't allowed out to play because of snow which I think is very sad. I was brought up in Aberdeen and playtimes in the snow are some of my happiest memories of school.

Anyway, instead they (year 6s) were left unsupervised for the whole of lunch time. DD says some of the boys went ballistic, running around, shouting and throwing things which hit her and others. She kept moving around to different places trying to keep out of their way. She said she felt trapped and thought she'd be in too much trouble if she dared to leave the class.

They pulled a story she had written out of her tray and read it out loud scorning it.

She came home and spent the rest of her day hiding in a den she made in her room. She has three brothers and I think she really needed some quiet time.

She's already plotting how she might be able to stay off school tomorrow to avoid a similar situation. If they hadn't missed so much time already because of snow, I would let her. Actually I may let her anyway. She shouldn't have to go through this surely?

What would you do?

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asdx2 · 12/01/2010 11:28

SMTB we also have a great headmaster who is out playing football with the boys most lunchtimes, instigated a conker tournament (lots of highly competitive boys at dd's school) and provided plastic spades, enthusiasm and accessories for the many snowmen he helped to build last week.

ItsAllaBitNoisy · 12/01/2010 12:04

That's great Spidermama

SnowMuchToBits · 12/01/2010 12:07

Let us know what the head says Spidermama!

Spidermama · 12/01/2010 16:48

He didn't call BUT the class was supervised today and he also had a chat with my dd. She seems to feel better about it. I'll have a proper chat with her later.

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OrmIrian · 12/01/2010 16:53

I'm a bit shocked that boys of that age can't behave themselves better than that. I would expect them to be able to stay in a classroom for a little while without trashing the place.

SnowMuchToBits · 12/01/2010 16:55

Well, that's an improvement, but think he should have phoned you as the receptionist said that he would.

BrigitBigKnickers · 12/01/2010 16:58

I suppose not all schools have enough supervisors for every class in the school.

We use our year 6s to monitor classes during wet plays and lunchtimes with a number of dinner ladies wandering round every few mins to ensure chaos isn't breaking out.

Children should never be left long enough to create the sort of bad behaviour your DD experienced.

Hopefully the boys in question were suitably punished and they are aware of the consequences if it ever happens again. It is bullying- pure and simple.

cat64 · 12/01/2010 17:15

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LynetteScavo · 12/01/2010 18:36

Year 6 children monitoring classes.

Oh lordy!

Hulababy · 12/01/2010 18:42

There is no way a class of Y6s should be left unsupervised AT ALL, let alone for a full lunch break.

You draft in more helpers if need me. The head and the deputy go and supervise if all else fails. Simple as that.

BrigitBigKnickers · 12/01/2010 19:48

"They pulled a story she had written out of her tray and read it out loud scorning it." I don't think this is just "being silly"

Sounds like bullying to me.

cat64 · 12/01/2010 20:05

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