My dd1 has just started reception and I have a couple of concerns. Her school was very oversubscribed this year so they are running two parallel receptions (normally one form intake) and they've also launched a new system whereby they share their building with the nursery and a lot of the day the children are playing/learning side by side with the nursery children. The two receptions are separated by a room divider, meaning effectively, there are about 65 children running about in two rooms.
We've been given a lot of waffle about how this is a great system mainly because the reception children are great role models to the nursery but my fear is it's too chaotic in there. Mums who go in to help read tell me it does appear to be bedlam and often the reception teachers are busy helping the nursery children who've wet their pants or whatever and the reception children MAY (because I'm just guessing, don't want to be flamed) be missing out
DD1 is a shy, quite nerdy child. She seems quite happy but she is definitely finding reception exhausting (and she's only been doing 9-12 this term she does whole days from tomorrow which I'm a bit apprehensive about). She's been finding making friends a bit tricky, partly I think because most children were in the nursery together and have friends already, but partly I think, after a chat with her tonight, because she is so overwhelmed she can't quite cope. I said if she was tired maybe she should do a puzzle or whatever in a corner and she said "But Mummy the noise from the other class is so loud I can't concentrate". Obviously I am now in a pfb tailspin that my little darling is in too raucous an environment and it may not be suiting her temperament.
There are also issues such as no one has heard her read for a couple of weeks. I am panicking that in this double class situation there aren't enough resources and the quiet ones get overlooked.
I will talk to the teachers about this naturally, but I'd be grateful for some steer. Am I overreacting? Do all children find it so overwhelming at first? Is this joint nursery/reception thing a good idea (I gather it's happening all over the place)?
Sorry for long post but any advice would be very welcome